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People seem to like to call people transphobic nowadays I guess. I had some nut job here on Lemmy calling me transphobic despite no evidence of it. They followed me around on my previous comments calling me a transphobe. I asked them to post screenshots for everyone to see the evidence. Multiple times. I said I would apologize for anything that could be misconstrued as transphobic, and try to make it clearer what I actually meant to say. No reply.
People are just weird sometimes. Maybe they don't know what the words mean that they use. Ignore it, is my advice.
I like my wife to be smooth on her legs, and semi smooth downstairs. She likes herself fully smooth though.
I even like myself smooth, but my wife doesn't want me fully smooth.
It's all just preference. ๐คทโโ๏ธ Nothing to do with gender at all, in our case.