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Anon is terminally lonely (sh.itjust.works)

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[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Happiness is fundamentally transitory and unsuitable for a goal

Oh, yeah, sorry, I didn't mean to imply "don't treat happiness as an expectation; treat it as a goal!", because like you said, it's fundamentally incompatible with what a goal is. I like to consider the SMART criteria, and even though it fails all of them (except 'T' if you insist you have a deadline to be happy), it fails 'A' the hardest, because a goal as such is literally defined by how it's oriented toward taking an action. Even if you think your goal is "I will be happy by doing X today", then – as long as you think you can do X and have a plan – what you actually have is the goal "I will do X today" with the faulty, tacked-on expectation of "and that will make me feel happy".