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I saw a post get banned. Well I dont wanna be a taboo subject. The more we shut down conversations the more we are ostracized. We shouldnt be so dogmatic. A society where people are free to express unpopular opinions is the one we want to live in. Seriously folks.

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[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sex is actually that simple. It's entirely defined by gamete production. Any edge case you can think of can be resolved to one of two sexes. Note the sexes listed for each DSD here:

https://theparadoxinstitute.org/articles/sex-development-charts

You're right that sex testing is not as simple

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If you reduce sex to ONLY gamete production you esssntjally declare castrated males, menopausal females, children, and anyone with complete infertiktiy to be sexless.

Which has the benefit of keeping categorical simplicity, but most people who argue against nuance in the sexing of humans are against either either the two sexes being "yes/no" questions or the human sexs being three categories of "male", "female", and "other".

(And it still obscures the nuance and variation in human gender and sexuality. Nobody's sexually attracted to gametes.)

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's the other way around. Categorical simplicity is observed in nature. Gametic sex is the only coherent definition.

Everyone has a sex. Some people don't produce gametes. Their bodies still contain sexed structures.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Stomping your feet and pretending the exceptions dont exist doesn't make them not exist.

Nothing in nature is ever absolutely so.

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I already listed a bunch. Here are the relevant comments.

https://lemmy.world/comment/23168319

https://lemmy.world/comment/23272499

I'm sure you can find some other examples if you do apply a proper skeptical review of your idea and search out arguments that disagree with you or examples that break your categorization.

I suggest starting with the relevant Wikipedia articles.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_differentiation_in_humans

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_humans

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Those aren't exceptions. Castrated males, menopausal females, children, and anyone with complete infertility all have a clear sex.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex

Please read this link, as previously suggested

https://theparadoxinstitute.org/articles/sex-development-charts

Some more reading

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disorders_of_sex_development

Those are variations within the sex binary. Not an exception. You're confusing sex with phenotype and genotype.

Please apply a proper skeptical review of your idea. I've saved you the effort of searching. Here is more:

https://www.gwup.org/skeptiker-artikel/sonstiges/one-reality-two-sexes-and-many-endless-debates/

There are only two sexes because there are only two types of gametes [in anisogamous species]. There’s no intermediate one. Therefore, there can only be two sexes that an individual can have.

Nothing in the biology of the sexes makes sense except in the light of gametes.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Dude, you are the one arguing the position that sex is merely gamete production.

My position is merely "it's complicated and we need to leave space for edge cases." (I am perfectly fine with male/female being separate yes/no questions or having the sex options be m/f/x)

Linking to a transphobic advocacy site just identifies you as either an embarassed transphobe or a sucker.

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm relaying what the overwhelming consensus is in the field of biology.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No, you're repeating a transphobic oversimplification of biology. And resorting to a bad argument from authority when the easy gaps in your simplifications are called out.

I'd ignore you at this point, but I have a macbre curiosity as to if you are yourself a transphobe or if you're instead just a useful fool for transphobic activism.

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why do you think the truth is transphobic?

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh, you're transphobic yourself. Got it.

"Truth" is for religion, philosophy, and encouraging honesty in courtrooms. Neither science, medicine, nor langauge give two shits about truth, only utility.

(And systems of categorization between N states have substantially less utility than those that include N states plus "other")

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The truth is that there is an observed binary in this case. N = 2. Gametic definition provides utility. That's why it's the only definition used in biology.

Do you want to learn? Would recommend.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

So, are you a hateful troll because you're transphobic, or are you transphobic because you're a hateful troll?

There is no "utility" in demanding that intersex humans be categorized as either male or female. No actual medical researchers study "biology", and actual science tells us that models where we treat human sex, gender, and sexuality as having only a coincidental correlation to reproductive cells are substantially more useful.

I mean, unless you're a transphobic bigot scared that the kids you love might realize that they are trans and dump you the way all victims dump their abusers. I guess a transphobic model could have some utility in spreading transphobia. Not that it even passes the first requirement of parsimony, though, since you need to ignore all of those damn edge cases....

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

There is no demanding. Intersex is a confusing term. It has confused you. Please learn.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disorders_of_sex_development

https://theparadoxinstitute.org/articles/sex-development-charts

You're confusing the scope of sex. The sex binary is fact. Sex is different from gender, is different from sexuality.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It doesn't matter how many times you share the same transphobic oversimplification, it's still a transphobic oversimplification.

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Why is it transphobic? Why is it an oversimplification?

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Why? You'd have to ask the authors why they put up a transphobic site. My guess is that they're either personally hateful bigots or just amoral cowards who take money from the same.

As for how...

[How] is it transphobic?

Go read the "about us" link on that advocacy page you keep pushing. Specifically the part about how "activists" are trying to confuse their "truth".

The advocates they're talking about are non-cis LGBTQIA+ folk whose dastardly agenda is "just let us be who we are." I suspect that if you scratched down to their funding source you'd find some of the same people pushing bathroom bills and gender marker shenanigans on official documents.

[How] is it an oversimplification?

For the Nth time, it's an oversimplification because categorizing all humans based on which reproductive cells they make ignores or misgroups humans who either don't produce any or who look and smell like they might produce the other ones than those they might once have produced.

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

So the link isn't transphobic. Each chart has links to sources. Please learn.

Sorry, you're confused. Nobody is ignored or misgrouped. Everyone has a sex. Some people don’t produce gametes. Their bodies still contain sexed structures.

Looks and smells aren't how sex is defined. You're confusing gender and sex. Please stop.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I'm not confused, you're just a transphobe.