this post was submitted on 18 Apr 2026
200 points (98.5% liked)

Selfhosted

58641 readers
749 users here now

A place to share alternatives to popular online services that can be self-hosted without giving up privacy or locking you into a service you don't control.

Rules:

  1. Be civil: we're here to support and learn from one another. Insults won't be tolerated. Flame wars are frowned upon.

  2. No spam posting.

  3. Posts have to be centered around self-hosting. There are other communities for discussing hardware or home computing. If it's not obvious why your post topic revolves around selfhosting, please include details to make it clear.

  4. Don't duplicate the full text of your blog or github here. Just post the link for folks to click.

  5. Submission headline should match the article title (don’t cherry-pick information from the title to fit your agenda).

  6. No trolling.

  7. No low-effort posts. This is subjective and will largely be determined by the community member reports.

Resources:

Any issues on the community? Report it using the report flag.

Questions? DM the mods!

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My experience was that every sub reddit itself was an echo chamber.

Not having the majority opinion of the subreddit meant getting negative scores because of downvoters, which lead to deleted posts because of that stupid karma system.

But yeah, suggesting a permanent solution for both sides of the Israel-Palestine conflict on Lemmy by criticizing BOTH sides doesn't get you sympathy points here either.

[–] StripedMonkey@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Even here, the guy you're responding to is getting down voted to oblivion (for Lemmy anyways) for an opinion that I have echoed elsewhere and gotten the opposite response.

Not having the majority opinion of this community seems to mean downvotes too. The only real difference is that reddit has enough staying power for people to put up with it.

[–] iamthetot@piefed.ca 3 points 1 day ago

I don't think it's a here or there problem, I think it's a human nature problem tbh.

[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Even here, the guy you’re responding to is getting down voted to oblivion (for Lemmy anyways) for an opinion that I have echoed elsewhere and gotten the opposite response.

I'm on a Lemmy instance that has downvotes disabled. I can only see that the person I replied to has 3 upvotes and that me previous comment has 2. I don't even see the negativity on Lemmy.

[–] StripedMonkey@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

He's at -5 at the moment. Depending on what instances you have blocked, you're going to see different amounts. It doesn't mean those people aren't there.

[–] Peffse@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Even if the post is true, it was the worst way to present it. It reads like trolling:

Call out people's politics with grandiose rhetoric, not backing up any claims with links to evidence.

Declare the other side is unbiased.

I mean, Internet 101 would dictate you downvote and disengage. It's not going to generate a discussion that would change minds or be constructive. Even now we're not talking about small website discoverability, but instead downvotes.

EDIT: I'm going to put my money where my mouth is. I'll try the same post.

[–] StripedMonkey@lemmy.zip -1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you'd like evidence of the toxic or extreme side of Lemmy, it's not hard to find. Are we really disagreeing that this is a problem with Lemmy? Regardless, you're misrepresenting OP with the "declare the other side is unbiased".

This conversation started started with pushing back on the idea of using Lemmy as a solution to small site discoverability. The toxicity and social aspects are perfectly relevant.

[–] Peffse@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

right right. Totally agree. The community here hurts it's discoverability. My criticism is only in the way to the post was worded.

I had this big explanation, but I realized it's not worth it. I already covered what I wanted to say.

Good that we don't have karma here...