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People also tend not to be very observant or, especially with parents, they have thrown their head in the sand. "No no you are/were a totally normal child".
That was my parents. "Weird" or "not normal" was bad so the reassurance was always that I was normal. Meanwhile my sister: yeah but remember how she used to watch that one DVD every single day for a year? And she read the same 5 books over and over while she ate the same breakfast every day even when you bought new books? And how you had to stock pile that cereal because if there wasn't any, she wouldn't eat anything because that cereal was breakfast and afternoon tea and sometimes dinner." ๐
My assessment involved a couple of hours of talking to my folks and my dad finally reading the end report just said "how did we miss this" ๐ข