Dull Men's Club
An unofficial chapter of the popular Dull Men's Club.
1. Relevant commentary on your own dull life. Posts should be about your own dull, lived experience. This is our most important rule. Direct questions, random thoughts, comment baiting, advice seeking, many uses of "discuss" rarely comply with this rule.
2. Original, Fresh, Meaningful Content.
3. Avoid repetitive topics.
4. This is not a search engine
Use a search engine, a tradesperson, Reddit, friends, a specialist Facebook group, apps, Wikipedia, an AI chat, a reverse image search etc. to answer simple questions or identify objects. Also see rule 1, “comment baiting”.
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5. Keep it dull. If it puts us to sleep, it’s on the right track. Examples of likely not dull: jokes, gross stuff (including toes), politics, religion, royalty, illness or injury, killing things for fun, or promotional content. Feel free to post these elsewhere.
6. No hate speech, sexism, or bullying No sexism, hate speech, degrading or excessively foul language, or other harmful language. No othering or dehumanizing of anyone or negativity towards any gender identity.
7. Proofread before posting. Use good grammar and punctuation. Avoid useless phrases. Some examples: - starting a post with "So" - starting a post with pointless phrases, like "I hope this is allowed" or “this is my first post” Only share good quality, cropped images. Do not share screenshots of images; share the original image.
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Same here, my dad has something to say about just about everything but he doesn't tend to be right :-/ When I said I wanted to fix this oil issue he immediately said that it's definitely caused by bad piston rings....he was getting ready to take the car to have the engine taken apart when I told him to stop and let me check.
I appreciate him wanting to help but really, if he's unfamiliar...he should probably not try to help...though I do love him.
And yea, I can't really make up the time to do this seriously, but if I have several weekends of spare time I eventually figure it out like I did with this. I went to 0 knowledge to using elsawin online and looking up part codes in like 5 months of weekend spare time (while also researching and doing other things).
Mine doesn't try. Silver lining, I guess?
As I understand it, it was a point of friction between him and his father already: Grandpa very much was the tinkering and handyman type, even as he got older (much to his wife's dismay when he'd climb a ladder at 80+ to do something in the ceiling).
He'd try to teach my father how to do stuff (partially because of gendered expectations that "a man should know how to...") but it just wouldn't stick. It's a shame, really. I think these things are worth knowing.
I struggle to do chores during the week, so weekend tends to be spent catching up, spending time with my wife, helping her with her own business It stuff etc. That leaves me with precious little energy for all the things I want to do and learn, unfortunately.
But I've been learning some stuff here and there, and now this post is on my "saved" list as well. Thank you for sharing it!
Yea parents seem to be one or the other most of the time. But hey they're doing their best :-)
Same about the chores... I've just been trying to cut back on things like gaming as much as possible to make time for other more important stuff, though I feel sad about that too lol