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[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 64 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

Spouse was at a dentist visit and her blood pressure was so high they threatened to call an ambulance. Has been that high off and on for weeks.

Take her to the doctor, doc knows she's had a full hysterectomy, knows she doesn't exaggerate, knows she refuses to take anything medincinal unless forced. This lady raw dogs migraines to avoid Ibuprofen.

First words out if doc's mouth, "BP that high isn't unheard of in women having their periods. Are you sure it's not your time of the month?" Followed by, "well I'm sure you're just nervous around doctors, it will go down when you get home."

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

This definitely isn't just a female thing. We were all exchanging doctor stories the other night and everyone had ones like this. Weirdly they were all in the past few years and that being gaslit or dismissed by a doctor just feels normal now.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Doctors are useless assholes nowadays, more interested in yapping about themselves than anything remotely useful.

I'd rather have a drunk North Korean veterinarian who lost his license and doesn't understand a word of English address my issues than any of the psychotic freaks Canada is cranking out lately.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 1 points 25 minutes ago* (last edited 25 minutes ago)

It's still hard for to believe I was denied renewal of a medication I was already on for years for serious mental health problems, because "maybe you just need to get out more," or "might be on your period." By multiple Canadian GPs.

It took two years of waiting for a female psychiatrist to find someone who was like "Oh yeah, you've got severe depression, ADHD, AND psychosis from untreated severe depression, let's get you on meds ASAP."

[–] Zorcron@lemmy.zip 25 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

High blood pressure alone is not an emergency. Definitely something to be concerned about preventing/treating in the long term, but no blood pressure number alone warrants an ambulance without also having symptoms of something like a heart attack or stroke that indicates organ damage.

That said, that kind of blasé approach to markedly elevated blood pressure with no real plan to reassess or find a root cause is still unacceptable, especially lazily blaming it on menstruation like is so common. So not trying to undermine your experience, I just had to chime in bc the “hypertensive crisis” thing is a pet peeve of mine.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Yeah this very much depends on the actual specific number. I work inpatient so I don't blink at 155 systolic because we're gonna take it again in 12h and honestly these days the hospitalist says current evidence supports not even treating emergently until 170. The ED actually keeps insisting that 180 isn't their problem for patients they want admitted to psych. A small dentists office might not be up to date on current best practice for treating hypertension.

When I interviewed for a CSU they were even like "how would you approach an intake where your new pt has a BP of 180?" and I, coming from the university hospital where I had residents subject to my whims I struggled to come up with an answer that wasn't "page the oncall I guess?" But I did manage "...tell them to take some deep breaths and take it again...?" which was apparently the right answer???

140s to me is a GP/PCP's problem 3 months from now and ultimately they'll probably just tell the person to start with eating less salt. It also sounds like it was asymptomatic and there's also the possibility that the doctor just figured she wouldn't take anything anyway based on this person's description.

[–] Zorcron@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

No seriously, there is no number that you need to treat emergently without accompanying signs of end-organ damage. The AHA recommends considering “permissive hypertension” even for SBPs over 180. So you could be 220/180 and if no other symptoms or signs of organ damage, you should get treated the same as someone who is 145/95, and even then that’s only if the hypertension is chronic. The only difference is it will probably take a lot more meds to chronically control someone whose bp is that extreme.

AHA’s 2024 review article for reference

[–] LurkingLuddite@piefed.social 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Every lady's experience in a red state. Seriously, I'm not making a joke, being a "conservative" as defined in the US political system NEEDS to be categorized as a mental disorder that precludes people from being doctors at the least.

[–] somethingsnappy@lemmy.world 2 points 34 minutes ago

There are so many misogynists in the center (we don't have a real left) that the orange idiot beat two women.