Canada

I know as compassionate Canadians it's hard to contend with Ukrainians losing their homes to Russian aggression. It's major power vs. major power though, the main reason Ukraine is lacking is because Putin's bootlickers in the US have helped Russia by stalling aid for so long, and even meeting NATO commitments for 30 years would have no discernible effect compared to that.

When looking at the Israel-Palestine issue, I think it would have been a better time than any for us Canadians to respond in the same way we did in the Suez Crisis in 1956, where UK, France and Israel invaded Egypt. It would have been excellent to take a stand and intervene not necessarily supporting Palestine or Israel specifically but to end hostilities and protect civilian life in a conflict where there is blatant disregard for it from Hamas and IDF military command.

Unfortunately we basically took the US' position without saying so explicitly. And considering the way non-combatants, humanitarian volunteers and journalists have been murdered without consequence, it's a hard sell as Canadians to sacrifice ourselves to the war machine.

Israel also can stop the war by lifting the blockade of gaza and stop colonizing the westbank

Ukraine is a uniquely difficult situation and, while I agree we could do more, I think it's mostly America's delayed response that has led to thus drawn out conflict. Part of the reason for that response is entirely rational - no western nation wants to directly put boots on the ground for fear of escalating the war to a nuclear level. Part of the reason is just internal American corruption. Canada's contributions are below nato expectations but still rather close - I don't think we need to shoulder the burden for failing to resolve this conflict.

And, as a note, one of my coworkers and reports is a Ukrainian refugee - we've been extremely relaxed about accepting them (in a good way) and have several preexisting cultural communities (especially in BC).

Isreal is another matter entirely - that's America's shame... the can stop the genocide with the flick of their wrists and my strongest desire there is that Biden's reluctance to do so doesn't give us another Trump presidency south of the border.

If we had been meeting our NATO obligations for the last 30 years, would this family have been driven out of their home?

I only know what I read in the popular press, but believe Russia/Putin regards Ukraine as a physical buffer between Russia and the threat of invasion. I don't think a stronger (or weaker) NATO would have changed that belief.