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Why not just have an easy button that you can click saying Do Not Allow Reply All?

I know that there are some ways you can limit reply-all availability, like in the URL linked here. But there's a note: If recipients open this email in other mail applications except Microsoft Outlook, such as opening on web page via web mailbox, they can reply all this email.

I'm semi-tech savvy but I'm no programmer. It feels like it should be easy to do, so either I'm totally wrong or email services are really missing out on a great thing they could do.

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[–] donuts@lemmy.world 111 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Step 1: draft an email to yourself

Step 2: put all recipients in the BCC

Step 3: now "reply all" does jack shit

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 31 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I use BCC semi-frequently at work because it prevents all kinds of (mostly unintentional) annoyances from my coworkers. Mostly with automated emails related to reports and/or our case management system. BCC is your best friend when used selectively.

[–] superkret@feddit.org 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Just don't use it for mass mailing external addresses. That'll get you on a blacklist faster than you'd think.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Just don't use it for mass mailing external addresses. That'll get you on a blacklist faster than you'd think.

What do you mean by this?

[–] superkret@feddit.org 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Putting a bunch of recipients in bcc to send out mass mail is what spammers do.
So if you also do this, you'll look like a spammer.
This may lead to your emails getting rejected by various mail servers in the future.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Ohhh, thanks for the info!

[–] MentallyExhausted@reddthat.com 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

My favorite thing is when I notice the chain is emailing people who don’t need to see it and Reply All after moving them to BCC (I add a note saying “moved X to BCC” for transparency).

People love me :-)

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

At my office people tend to go way overboard with the number of CCs. I understand the need for communication and coordination on some things. But so much of it is just unnecessary-reflexive CYA and dilution of responsibility.

[–] NutinButNet@hilariouschaos.com 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I just get users messaging me to ask “is this spam?” since there’s no one in the To: section or they weren’t in the CC or To section.

But I still do it to avoid this type of crap.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

You can put in the first line of your message body:

in bcc

[–] swordgeek@lemmy.ca 84 points 1 month ago

Here's my snarky take on it:

Because it's not the job of the mail client to decide what parts of the protocol should be hidden from stupid users.

[–] johannesvanderwhales@lemmy.world 81 points 1 month ago

The solution is if you're sending a mass email that shouldn't be replied to you use BCC. So it's really the sender's fault

Outlook does give a warning now if you're sending to a distro list

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 44 points 1 month ago (2 children)

As the other commentors have said, this isn't a problem with email services, it's a problem with email users. If you put all the addresses in the "To:" or "CC:" boxes, its because you want someone to Reply All. If you want to prevent that, put all the recipients in the BCC box.

Its a good idea, but fortunately someone already solved it a good while back. Now we just need a PSA to teach people to stop cramming everyone in the wrong box.

[–] johannesvanderwhales@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It is slightly the fault of the email clients for the sender that often don't show BCC by default. It probably would be reasonable for email clients to put a warning up if people are sending to a large number of people without using BCC.

[–] NutinButNet@hilariouschaos.com 4 points 1 month ago

Also their fault because a lot of them have had the Reply All button first before Reply. Outlook, at least, seems to be changing this in some ways.

But putting it first is guaranteeing users will just click the first “reply” and keep writing.

[–] SatyrSack@feddit.org 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People in my organization do this, and it's great. The only downside to that is when you want recipients to know exactly who else the email was sent to. Not super common, in my experience, but it does occur.

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

When I do bcc to a big list, I describe the distribution in the email header. Like "To: all users of the xxx application" or "To: All Engineering employees at the yyy site."

[–] fitgse@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My wife and I were doing big renovations on our home and were dealing with lots of contractors. I would email them and include my wife’s email. Yet every contractor failed to press reply all when responding so my wife was constantly left out of the loop

It turns out people just don’t care to think about or understand basic technology.

This stuff really needs to be taught in school (like how we used to have typing and business communication classes)

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 3 points 1 month ago

I kind of think that contractors not being well versed in digital things is to be expected.

[–] superkret@feddit.org 24 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

When your recipient can "reply all", that means you've exposed every recipient's email address to all recipients.
At that point, "reply all" is just a convenience, without it they could just copy-paste the email addresses manually.

If you want to suppress that, don't show everyone the email address of everyone else.
For internal mail, you can use BCC. For external, use a mailer service.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I worked for a startup that got bought by Oracle. Five whole years without a reply-all storm, but the first week we had hundreds of people reply all and it was hilarious watching the admins try and fail to convince people to stop replying all.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

the admins should not be the ones convincing. Its the managers who have to wrangle behavior like that.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Most of the people replying-all were managers

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

ah but you see even managers have mangers. I mean if the behavior goes all the way to ceo then its just company culture at that point.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

its just company culture at that point

Considering it was Oracle I'd go with this

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wonder what the back end software is there. With Exchange reply-all storms are a thing of the past. I don’t have to convince anyone of anything to stop a reply all storm. Takes 2 minutes of setting up a transport rule. But the admin needs to be experienced enough to know that.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

It was Oracle so they probably have a terrible internal email server that will have reply-all storm protection in a year or two.

I was working with the customer service software devs to migrate my team from Salesforce's Desk.com (because Oracle hates Salesforce) and they said it would take 18 months to make a dropdown that you could type in and select a macro for a ticket. Eventually they gave up.

Enough said. You have my sympathy.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Is there any other way to describe Lotus?

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I just talked to an oracle employee. They are using outlook/exchange/teams now and have moved on from Beehive.

[–] purplemonkeymad@programming.dev 3 points 1 month ago

I've pointed out that this issue could arrise so many times to companies with the all staff email. Every time they push back on wanting to define limited senders, "we don't think it's an issue/no one would do that!" Until someone sends an inappropriate email to the whole company, then it's suddenly IT's fault.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

The correct response is to reply all when people start bitching. I can usually throw in an "unsubcribe" request in a separate email.

[–] IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

at my last job, someone from corporate sent out a mass email to literally everyone in the company (thousands of people) without using BCC and that chain ended up lasting for weeks before someone higher up eventually said that further reply alls will be punished lmao

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That means your mail admins sucked at their job.

[–] IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

oh believe me, everyone working at that company's corporate office sucked at their job, including me lmao. every hour was amateur hour!

every hour was amateur hour!

lol, I am stealing this!

[–] hedgehog@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The way to do this is to use a mailing list that only allows a limited number of people to send emails to it. You could do this automatically when someone clicked a “Prohibit Reply All” button, but such a feature is unnecessary if you use mailing lists configured that way by default.

[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That basically means sending the same email over and over but with one recipient per email

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[–] JackLSauce@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

At my work we have something in place that prevents somebody from sending to more than 50 recipients but we control our own mail servers and know how many people are in the largest department

Basically, things like this exist but aren't necessarily intuitive to set up and defaults would require contextual knowledge

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

you think thats bad. group texts automatically send to all. It doesn't even default to just replying to the last person to send to you.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

This is correct. Any message sent to a group, should reply to the group by default.

[–] Deconceptualist@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah for real, fuck SMS protocol for omitting basic quality of life features developed decades prior.

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[–] femtech@midwest.social 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They can, and do give the option for Enterprise support but not public/personal accounts. You will need to bcc if you don't want others replying.

https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/outlook_com/forum/all/preventing-reply-all-on-internal-e-mail-chain/5f0344fd-1fed-43c7-88e7-41010e085c2a

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[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago
[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago
[–] EtherWhack@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Is this from that one about that lunch thing where people ignored when told to only reply to that one guy. It gave me a bit of enjoyment this week.

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