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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Everyone seems to be doomscrolling

[–] greenskye@lemm.ee 47 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I've spent an astronomical amount of effort trying to remove as much depressing and outrage content from my feeds as possible. It's a sisyphian task with new things constantly slipping through the cracks. Which has made me mostly check out of all but a very small list of online spaces (and even then ads and other impossible to turn off 'recommendations' show up).

Outrage and depressing content fuels the web and it's best to recognize that. I've been a lot happier in my ignorance so far and would recommend it to anyone who's privileged enough to get away with it. It's not like being informed and engaged did fuck all for me in the last decade except give me a variety of mental issues.

It helps me to remember that informed voters 50-70 years ago were people who read the papers. Not even regularly, just those who knew what was going on in the world on a regular basis. It is not normal or healthy to have a constant barrage of news and input - and more than that it's not wrong to take a break from it. I had to learn that the hard way, that it's okay to take a break, it doesn't make you a bad person, that online is making you anxious. I folded in on myself, I had panic attacks, I couldn't function - and I got help. That help helped me realize that I don't have to shoulder this alone, I do not have to keep watching and listening. I'm informed, I know what's going on, I know what happened today - but that doesn't mean I'm going to turn my filters off either.

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[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can find people in a good mood, but not on Lemmy :P

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

But what if I don't want to go to a nazi rally?

[–] Breezy@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago

Im in a bad mood. I cant speak for others. But the world is fucked up.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 days ago (9 children)
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[–] zephorah@lemm.ee 35 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We felt it last year. A building up of something. A sense of impending doom. Feelings of grim.

Things are worse especially with Trump making noises about using the American military to take resources. I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head but here we are. He is a guy who would do it too. Making us axis and not ally this go. That’s grim.

Pick and choose your outlets but don’t stick your head in the sand.

I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head

Seriously, it feels like he just crawled out of his basement full of bizarre obsessions.

[–] iltoroargento@lemmy.sdf.org 32 points 2 days ago

Not just you. Lots of negative feeling going around. If I could put a word to what I saw today, it would be "grim".

[–] transitinoir@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

The world it just ain't right, it keeps me up at night

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 2 points 1 day ago

I'm in a pretty bad fucking mood but I kind of figured that was more my problem.

[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

The vibes on RedNote aren't so bad.

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