A VPN is going to offer better security. I would only use cloudflare if you need something to be open to the public. This is useful when you have non-technical users that aren't going to understand using a VPN.
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Just use CF with host restrictions. You can easily add which hosts should have access of you want to limit access further
Tailscale. Because it can do both. It functions as a mesh VPN for private access, but it also has Tailscale Funnel which does the same thing as Cloudflare tunnels but you don’t give all your traffic to Cloudflare
Tailscale server can also be self-hosted, look into headscale.
~~From my own experience, I still can't setup headscale on my Android phone, I think latest tailscale APP fucked up setting custom server function.~~ Don't install from Google Play
been using headscale + android ts app for a few months now, no issues. i get the app via fdroid.
Installed from F-Droid and it works without issue, thanks
Thanks! That sounds exactly what I've been looking for. Will try it out and if it's too complicated I will use Tailscale.
If it's just you, and you're willing to install it on all your devices, Tailscale is the best option IMO. If you need to share things with others, use CF Tunnels.
It's mainly just for me and my wife, I guess I can set it up for her.
I like tailscale and have been testing it for a few months. I'm also using headscale as the control plane.
Unfortunately the android client is somewhat unreliable. It works most of the time but once in a while, connections to your tailnet will fail for a bit and require retries. If you ping a machine in your tailnet during this problem, it will show packet loss and then start working after a few pings. This unfortunately makes it difficult to have a reliable split DNS setup.
I've done everything to try and understand what happens without success. It seems like state is lost somewhere and a few packets flowing will fix it. Running a constant ping from Android to my tailnet "fixes" the problem, but is not a great workaround.
Just something to keep in mind before you jump headfirst.
Tailscale also has the advantage that you easily access udp services, the last time I checked this was not really possible with cloudflare tunnels
Definitely Tailscale
You can just self-host Wireguard on an always-free Oracle cloud machine (or of course any other cloud host). It's quite easy to set up and there are open source Wireguard UIs and clients for any OS. I will never rely on a company like Tailscale or Cloudflare for something like this.
Acronyms, initialisms, abbreviations, contractions, and other phrases which expand to something larger, that I've seen in this thread:
| Fewer Letters | More Letters |
|---|---|
| CF | CloudFlare |
| CGNAT | Carrier-Grade NAT |
| DNS | Domain Name Service/System |
| HTTP | Hypertext Transfer Protocol, the Web |
| HTTPS | HTTP over SSL |
| IP | Internet Protocol |
| NAS | Network-Attached Storage |
| NAT | Network Address Translation |
| SSH | Secure Shell for remote terminal access |
| SSL | Secure Sockets Layer, for transparent encryption |
| TCP | Transmission Control Protocol, most often over IP |
| TLS | Transport Layer Security, supersedes SSL |
| VPN | Virtual Private Network |
| VPS | Virtual Private Server (opposed to shared hosting) |
13 acronyms in this thread; the most compressed thread commented on today has 8 acronyms.
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Cloudflare hates VPNs, so when it comes to privacy, it's not really a contest.
What I enjoy with tailscale is that the traffic goes directly from the host to the client.
Since there is no cloud relay I can connect to all my services via tailscale, even on local network and it's not going to impact the speed.
This way I only have one setup that works the same way on local network or remotely but still have the local network speed when I am at home.
That's amazing I thought it would slow down on lan. Since myy upload speed is really slow.
discovered tailscale from this post and after reading their "how tailscale works" I was hoping to get some clarification from an activer user (you).
CF tunnels setup an outbound-only tunnel from my private network via cloudflared, I have no ingress holes in my firewall to access my services. cloudflared does all the proxying. Plus my IP changes monthly as I don't pay for a static one from my ISP. This "outbound-only" connection is resilient to that.
Tailscale is point-to-point (for data plane) connection and only the control plane is "hub and spoke". This sounds like I need to allow ingress rules on my private network so my server can be connected to? Is this true or where did I misunderstand?
I'm probably not the beat person to answer to you about the technical aspect and I'm not sure if I fully understand your question.
However I can tell you that there is no need to change anything at network level for tailscale to work.
I've installed and used tailscale on desktops, VM, raspberry, NAS or smartphone on plenty of different network, I've also remotely guided people to install tailscale on their machine at home and it always just worked. No issue at all and nothing to change on the network for it to work.
interesting, I'll have to read about this some more then. thanks for pointing me in the right direction
Tailscale Funnel and Serve will also let you point services to the public. I only use tailscale for all of my access needs and it's perfect and easy to handle 👌
Why not both?
I use tailscale for full access to network and cloudflare tunnels to specific access to a service
I'm suprised nobody mentioned nebula: A scalable overlay networking tool with a focus on performance, simplicity and security.
I've been running it for about two years on multiple machines and it worked flawlessly so far. Even connecting two hosts, both behind mullvad-vpn tunnels.
The only downside is, that you have to host your own discovery server (callled "lighthouses"). One is fine, but running at least two removes the single point of failure from the network.
Neither, I setup a VPS and wireguard. I also use netbird for some things that aren't publicly accessible
Do you mean Wireguard? I couldn't find anything called Fireguard.
Yes