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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The ability to process information. It seems like the reason need AI to summarize different things is because they never learned how to do it themselves.

[–] creamlike504@jlai.lu 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think our skill to process information has natural limits, which were overwhelmed decades ago by the social media firehose and a breakdown of information-filtering infrastructure.

an average edition of a newspaper the size of The Times already contains more information about the world than a person in the 17th Century was likely to come across in a lifetime. (Wurman, Information Anxiety)

That was back in 1989. We're now 30 years later with an internet supercharged by predatory algorithms.

And we can't filter all of it without either completely withdrawing from the world entirely or spending months learning why and how to filter it ourselves.

We have had information overload in some form or another since the 1500s. What is changing now is the filters we use for the most of the 1500 period are breaking, and designing new filters doesn’t mean simply updating the old filters. They have broken for structural reasons, not for service reasons. (Shirky, It's Not Information Overload. It’s Filter Failure)

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 week ago

Perhaps, but I'm talking about are problems within human limits. For example, take information from 5 different sources to synthesize an answer to a question.

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[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Basic cooking skills

Reading comprehension

Listening to someone speak without interrupting

Remembering to let other people speak when having a conversation

[–] logos@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

Yes omg it's so stressful to try to finish a thought before I get interrupted again.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 12 points 1 week ago

Listening (to one another).

[–] anamethatisnt@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Reading instructions would be another one that gets skipped due to stress or whatever the excuse is.

Or taking the time to properly read and reply to an email. I've learnt the hard way to never have more than one question per email, it's only the first or the last question that gets answered.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

At least in a business context, the vast majority of emails that I see sent out are mostly useless fluff. Many of them don't need to be sent, and the ones that do are rarely concise or structured to summarize what they are saying up top, then later go into detail for people who might need more detail.

Time is a finite resource consumed by this, and there's no penalty for using someone else's. Businesses don't, say, try to assess the business cost imposed by an employee's sent emails when reviewing that employee's performance.

I think that users attempt to compensate by committing less time to reading them. Doing ever-more-perfunctory skims in an attempt to limit how much of their time gets consumed by email that isn't worthwhile.

And that tends to encourage not fully reading emails.

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Proof reading what they post.

Looking at you OP :P

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeh, I'll concede that I'm shitty at typing on my phone. Fixed.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Aren't we all mate.

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sewing. Learn to sew! It's very helpful!

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

My mom said "never learn to sew. You will look at clothes and say 'no way I am buying that, I can make it' and then you won't make it, and you will have nothing to wear".

I did sew costumes for my kids for Halloween, stuff that doesn't have to last, but get what she was saying.

I do, however, cook much better than she did and am not sorry, still like going out to eat. And can make cocktails better than most I'd get at a bar but still find joy in going out for a drink. I think she was right about clothes though, they aren't an experience like going out to dinner.

[–] co_bymusic@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

How to handle criticism. To take the best from it, learn from it, try to become more of what is important to yourself and leave the rest.

It's either not taking it at all, thinking everyone is wrong... or it's giving it to much attention. Like thinking the opinion of people that you don't respect at all, that you don't even like counts too. You'll never be right for everyone. But being criticised by people that care to make your life better is actually precious.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago

Critical thinking: We would be in a better world if more people were capable of it.

[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 week ago

media literacy

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Reading a map.

GPS is great & all, but I know people that if you put a paper map in front of them they're still lost because they can't correlate the map with reality.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can read a map (and hate letting the car navigate) but map has to be aligned with the world. Before the cell phone, I used to spread the map out on the ground, with north pointing north.

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[–] medgremlin@midwest.social 7 points 1 week ago

For something very relevant to health: cooking, knowing how to measure food, and how to read a nutrition label. Obesity would be much less common if people were able to cook their own food more often, and knew how to actually measure out accurate portion sizes.

I totally get that time, upfront costs like cookware, and access to decent ingredients are MAJOR factors in whether or not someone can learn how to cook, but anyone can and should know how to read a nutrition label and know how to measure accurate portion sizes for the things they eat. If you are trying to lose weight or work on healthy habits, a food scale is infinitely more valuable than a body weight scale. Most people do not know what 28g of chips looks like.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Having a basic idea of how a car/engine works. Most people waste so much money on basic repairs they could just do themselves. Feels like majority of folks couldn't even put on their spare tire. Plus, mechanic is job that less and less people are willing to do over time so the cost of their labour will only keep getting worse

[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm like a few year older the driving age and I don't even have a driver's license 💀

I feel like I'm being called out 🥲

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[–] CptHacke@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago
[–] scytale@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Driving. Most people know how to operate a vehicle, but a lot don’t know how to actually drive properly.

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[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 5 points 1 week ago

Basic math. I don't talk about solving differential equation. But if you don't want to get scammed you need to understand what's a 10% discount, how do interest work, price per kg, or price per m^2

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Knowing the right tool for the job, specifically when it comes to repairing the things they own. I get that familiarizing yourself with your car's engine bay isn't the sexiest thing to do if it doesn't interest you, but most systems are incredibly intuitive once you know how to use a couple of basic tools. Competency in hand tools is something I think everyone should have TBH

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[–] octobob@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

Working with your hands and tools. It's amazing how far it can take you and how much money you can make and/or save by DIY'ing things around your home with some basic skills. Like there are people that will pay $100 for something easy like mounting a TV when it's a few minutes of finding studs and screwing down the bracket.

Then as things progress and you get more comfortable, you can start helping friends and doing side work. I've been doing industrial electrical for 10 years now, I'm gonna be re-wiring a whole house from the ground up in July

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