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ChatGPT will now predict your age based on how you interact with it

It seems now #openai is doing age estimation too based on this email I received,

After Google who made the "Age signals API" into Android phones, now OpenAI will "predict your age based on how you interact with our services".

No, I don't want #chatgpt to analyze my age, thank you very much, (I always used the privage chat mode anyways, whatever impact it actually has on the data they use), so I will now switch to an alternative that doesn't do that : https://chat.mistral.ai/

Don't misunderstand me, protecting children is a good idea, but if that implies having to be analyzed by an #AI and having your experience change based on that, I'm heavily against it.

Although it's convenient, if it starts analyzing my behaviour as well then I guess it will be a good time to start thinking a bit more on my own and only rely on AI as a last resort solution...

Their article https://help.openai.com/en/articles/12652064-age-prediction-in-chatgpt

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[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 44 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I recommend duck.ai as an alternative way of accessing ChatGTP. Is not a perfect solution but it’s better than accessing it straight from the OpenAI website

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 34 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I recommend just searching for what you want and reading the results yourself.

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I do too. But if someone really does want to use these tools then there are better and worse ways of doing it

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 5 points 3 weeks ago

True, that's a good point

[–] akilou@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes but sometimes using AI like this is so much easier. I find it really useful in troubleshooting tech problems because you can tell it your specific setup and iterate on solutions until something works. So much easier than reading through 1,000 StackExchange threads which approximate your problem

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[–] akilou@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Similarly, Proton has Lumo

lumo.proton.me/

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[–] helloyanis@furries.club 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

@ageedizzle I plan on using https://chat.mistral.ai/ since it's a completely different model that is open source and based in france so regulated by GDPR. If you still use ChatGPT but from somewhere else, it kinda defeats the purpose to switch away from it, in my opinion.

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 5 points 3 weeks ago

It’s better from a privacy perspective. But yeah, you’d still ultimately be using ChatGTP at the end of the day so another model might be preferable 

[–] Bonesince1997@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"Le Chat" lol idk why this looked funny to me. Thanks for the link!

[–] growsomethinggood@reddthat.com 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Extra funny when you learn what Chat GPT sounds like in French (chat, j'ai pété)

[–] degen@midwest.social 2 points 3 weeks ago

Of course it's not weird that "chat" is chat in French, but it's also cat which is silly

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[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 3 weeks ago

guy using chat gpt to ask about anime waifus and the bot confused if he's 12 or 45.

[–] Fancy_Gecko@lemmy.ml 26 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

i hate living in the crypto , ai and big social media era

[–] JonEFive@midwest.social 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's only getting worse too. The entire US economy is being propped up by AI and crypto. It's like the sub-prime mortgage craze of the early 2000s. Lots of money going into a system that will never recoup the investment. Either they have to find a way to extract value, or the bottom's gonna fall out. Just wait for the too big to fail AI and tech bailouts.

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

So by worse you mean better? I can't wait for the AI bubble to pop personally.

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you skip the last sentence?

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Sorry I don't get what you mean by skip the last sentence.

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[–] astutemural@midwest.social 26 points 3 weeks ago

This will last right up until all the right-wingers get pissed they're being identified as teenagers based on their 5th grade writing level.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

The whole idea of software services where the output is not a function of the input, but rather a function of the input plus all the data the service has been able to harvest about you has always been awful. It was awful when google started doing it years ago and it's awful when LLM frontends do it now. You should be able to know that what you are seeing is what others would see, and have some assurance that you aren't being manipulated on a personal level.

[–] calmblue75@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago

It's shocking how much this 'personalized' stuff is normalized.

[–] FineCoatMummy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Absolutely. Couldn't agree more.

I just run everything possible locally which helps a lot. Nearly everything my friends do in "the cloud" I do on my own computer. Even stuff like spreadsheets they want to do in the cloud. It flummoxes me, how willing they are to share everything with big tech.

If you have a mid range or better GPU, you can even run a local LLM. I have used one for language translation. I cannot speak German but I was talking to a German speaker who did not speak English about a hobby. We could talk to each other despite not sharing a language. That's practically sci-fi to me! I used a sandboxed LLM disallowed from any network access, to do that.

Even so, I am skeptical about most of what I see people use LLMs for. I am afraid of what they will allow bad actors to do. I am afraid of even worse corruption of the information space. I doubt the horse will re-enter the barn tho.

[–] glitching@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] treatcover@lemmy.ml 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think if you really care about privacy, you should assume they do this, no matter what they say. By the way, great job on including the image transcript. :)

[–] helloyanis@furries.club 6 points 3 weeks ago

@treatcover Well, you can run Mistral locally but my laptop is not powerful enough haha
Also, yeah, a small copy paste goes a long way!

[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Good, maybe people will stop using it and switch to an open-weight Chinese model

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

If you use the app it's still sending all of your data to the company that makes the model, I guess it depends if you prefer Chinese spyware or US spyware.

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Step 1 - don't use apps on a phone and instead use an appropriate open source sandbox on an actual x86 machine.

The mobile-focused development cycle and its consequences have been a disaster for user agency.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

The mobile-focused development cycle and its consequences have been a disaster for user agency.

Could you repeat that louder for the folks at the back?

(Also, it's a statement that's generally true in ways completely unreleated to AI.)

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[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 weeks ago

At least they use your data to make a model that's open weight

[–] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

And using either of them doesn't guarantee your data won't get out anyways for products provided by corporations like the recent tiktok outcome showed where a billion dollar company would rather sell out than close down to protect users.

[–] BennyTheExplorer@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

Just don't use AI and you'll be fine

[–] hector@lemmy.today 6 points 3 weeks ago

So corporations will decide whether you should be forced to surrender commercially valuable personal data to them, that makes them more money. Great system guys! If we can't trust mega corporations with political connections, who can we trust?

[–] DieserTypMatthias@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 weeks ago

Try any model with LMStudio and with the DuckDuckgo search plugin to it. It works better than you might think.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 weeks ago

If at all possible, anyone that cares about their privacy should be self hosting.

https://lemmy.world/c/selfhosted

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 5 points 3 weeks ago

ChatGPT, hello. This is the first time we have chat. What can I give my wife for our 18th wedding anniversary.

Hello kids, start every conversation with ai like this and you’ll be fine

[–] solrize@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

So if I talk about hemorrhoids enough, it will think I'm old and let me into the pr0n sites! Cool!!!

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 weeks ago

You would be surprised what health problems people under 18 can have.

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

At some point in the 2000s I chatted with the SmarterChild chatbot on MSN Messenger for a while. I was around 11 or 12 years old at the time.

I remember it once answering "sorry, web search is only available to adult users", to which I responded "how do you know I'm just a child?". I don't remember what came before or after that… it might have asked me my DOB at some point before that, but am until today not sure how it knew that. Point is, none of this is new… 😁

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

how do you know I'm just a child?"

"You just told me, kiddo!"

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago

Finally I see a use for AI. In a carnival midway. "I will guess your age for $250".

[–] peacefulpixel@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

the amount of problems i don't have to deal with because i simply don't use GenAI

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[–] artyom@piefed.social 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

If you absolutely must use ChatGPT, you can do it with Duck.ai as a proxy to protect your personal info.

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[–] catdog@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 weeks ago

Makes sense to me. Use the LLM itself to counter children from using it in ways they aren't allowed to.

[–] LeTak@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Mhhhh another FairMail user, a person of culture. I only used it because it was the only OSS client with encryption and signature support

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

So if I don't use it I'm dead?

[–] jlow@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago

Ha, I thought this was an email from FairEmail at first. That would have been wild. This coming from Scam Altman, not surprising 🤷‍♀️

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