AquaTofana

joined 1 year ago
[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

Weird to think that a conservative ass tiny Texas town with absolutely NOTHING in it besides an Air Force base was once pushing community benefits like street cars.

I wonder what it could've been today if they had gone with this plan 100 years ago. ๐Ÿค”

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago

I'm still trying to have a relationship with my parents despite their love of Trump. My mother, she'll go out of her way to avoid politics with me and my husband, and I asked for a family photo with my nieces and nephews for Christmas, and she made sure all their Trump paraphernalia was removed. I still havent talked to her since the election as I'm still processing the fact that she voted for that fucker.

My dad on the other hand...the last time I spoke to him ended in a screaming match that he initiated, where he hung up on me because I called him racist due to him UNIRONICALLY believing that immigrants ate dogs and cats.

They want to homeschool my niece and nephew, and that terrifies me. That was ANOTHER huge argument that we had over the 2021-2022 Christmas period. I really didnt think Id ever go back after that. But Im so scared that if I dont try, those kids will never be exposed to ANYTHING other than my parents hateful views. I grew up in that environment. I had some views that Im not proud of today until I left home @ 19. I know how fucking convincing they are/how much they push the "fAmIlY oVeR eVeRyThInG" narrative.

That being said, I dont live anywhere near them, and I only see them once, maybe twice in a year, so Im not sure exactly how much affect I can even have on my niece and nephew. But I feel guilty not trying.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Deleted prior comment because the comment didnt add to the conversation and I got lost in my own spiral.

But Squid, I think its admirable to put your daughter first. Everyone with half a brain knows that decisions like this, uprooting an established family and everything you know, isnt made lightly/on a whim. You're showing your support of her well-being, and every time you talk about her on here, you come off as such a loving parent. We should all be so lucky. And, youve talked about having chronic illness before and it sounds like youre headed to a place with socialized health care. I wish you and yours all the luck in the world.

As for my husband and I, we're childfree by choice, so we're the best kinda people to stay behind. The kind who can weigh decisions against our own well being and decide what we can/cant handle exposing ourselves to without mixing up a child in this mess.

Fuckin' not staying in Texas tho.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Reading that anyone could think Bell's Two Hearted is "fruity" is fucking wild.

I'm guessing he hadn't actually tried it at the time.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah I'm in Texas and my spam filter looks just like OPs and others who have posted in this thread.

Im starting to think this is a general American issue and not a swing state-vs-solid state issue

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Less than mid troll ๐Ÿฅฑ

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Anyone who is not an able-bodied straight white Christian male with money should be concerned about this user's viewpoints.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Another two here cast for Allred today!

Honestly, while I'm watching the Presidential election with bated breath along with everyone else, I'm more invested in Ted Cruz and those 3 fuckwad Republican State Justices who are up for re election as well!

Fuck you Cruz, Blacklock, Bland, and Devine! LFG Allred, Weems, Jones, and Goldstein! Uproot those fascist fucks!

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

Fuck man, even the tiniest possible cruise cabins still have room for a stand up shower, toilet, and sink. And they fit a queen sized bed.

Knock down a wall or two and don't make people share a communal bathroom like they're recruits in basic training.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Someone on here posted a glowing review of Fields of Mistria. I downloaded the game and I can't stop playing it!

It's that perfect cozy farm Sim game, mimicking the best parts of Stardew Valley and minimizing the worst parts. I cannot wait for the full release, and I'm so glad I happened upon that review!

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm AFAB, cisgendered/feminine af, and I've used so many all-gendered bathrooms. With men. "Manly men", even! They were going pee in a urinal while I was peeing in a stall! At the same time! (This was on a very LGBTQ+ friendly cruise at the time, and only one bathroom on each floor had gender designations for those who really couldnt wrap their minds around the concept). Additionally, in the hipster areas of my major metro area, a lot of the cool bars/restaurants are all gendered as well!

Guess how many times Ive been raped/assaulted/harassed in a bathroom? Guess, Texas? Ill give you a hint: It was zero. Zero times.

Fuck, I hate this state.

[โ€“] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yup. Stuck to my guns for over a year, and Lemmy didnt grow like I thought it would. Started using Reddit more regularly again in September.

Now, I do still only use it in the browser, no app, so my usage of Lemmy still far surpasses Reddit.

But there are some communities that either never made the migration or faced active hostility, so, gotta go to Reddit to be a part of them ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ.

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