AyuTsukasa

joined 11 months ago
[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Where the heck is half-elf being used as a slur? This is the first I've heard of it.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 14 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I saw my father in law use a camera stand to hold it up

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago

I've never heard of sautéing them in water I just throw them straight in the pan

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Now I wonder what stops people from just driving off without paying. Is there a camera or something?

 

I can't think of what fraud it prevents.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

It's actually pretty interesting how word meanings split. Language is weird. https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/word-history-of-litter

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago
 

Everytime I try to post an image I get a pop up that says error uploading image.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 2 points 10 months ago

Eh honestly I'm with you on this homework isn't an effective learning tool for everyone. Plus it's not like you're handing out fake degrees even if you were who cares? what matters is if they can do the job

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I get it I actually have social anxiety that's why I've been so patient with him. I fully understand his reaction it's just that I'm not close enough with him nor am I a therapist able to work through it with him.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

True true, I'm going to start with a meeting with me him and the supervisor. I don't think he is maliciously manipulative if that makes any sense. He just genuinely gets sad when when someone doesn't find him funny or he annoyed someone and I don't think he ever learned to how to properly handle being sad.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Fair point I am probably overthinking it.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I'll probably go that route. I've never called him annoying.

the worst I've done is tell him he's not helping when he made me lose my count on something.

I was counting a part when he came to talk to me about something completely unrelated. I didn't respond, and when he asked what's wrong I told him I'm just trying to keep my count. He then he continues to talk about his thing and I lose my count. So I do an exasperated sigh tell him I just lost my count can he come back later. He then started counting the wrong parts out loud so I stop him and say that's not helping. Then he puts on his kicked puppy face said he was just trying to help and went non verbal for an hour after that.

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemm.ee 20 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

So the issue is it's like a loop you be nice and ignore him he thinks he's cool.

You be mean and tell him he's annoying he paints you as the asshole.

You be nice and tell him he's being annoying he throws a pity party and makes you feel guilty for saying anything.

 

So this dude is basically a 46 year old man child and I don't wanna armchair diagnose people, but he's probably on the spectrum.

He'll say a pun or a "funny" phrase, stare at you till you acknowledge it, then when you do, he'll just keep saying it over and over. Even if you don't acknowledge it he'll say it a bunch then switch to a new one.

He's obsessed with making fart noises then pretending it's someone else he'll even do it while we're eating lunch. I've tried the politely asking him to stop he just says "oh you know I'm just joking" then when I tell him its genuinely annoying he goes full kicked puppy and acts super sad for a few hours and gets all woe is me saying stuff like "oh well I guess everyone hates me I'll just shut up forever". Sometimes he even goes full non verbal and literally just tries to communicate by pointing and or writing notes.

It's not like he's an asshole he a genuinely good guy he's good at his job and he's got your back when you need it.

I guess I just have a hard time finding the balance between not being an ass to a guy with zero social skills and losing my sanity because he can't be quiet for 5 minutes.

 

I can't post images when I try it says uploading error. I assumed it was a permission think but there's no permissions to enable other than notifications. I don't know what else it could be my internet works fine.

 

When I click it the post disappears but it that the only thing it does?

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