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Two Democratic politicians already threw trans people under the bus, saying the party is too left on trans-issues, and then parroting the "people don't want biological boys in girl's sports" bullshit.

And then that one Dem who ran the campaign ad "I've never pushed for sex changes," or something like that.

I'm trans too, and honestly, I will never be supporting the DNC again after hearing that from two of their congressional members.

We're well aware, and it's honestly getting old hearing "wElL tHe ReSt Of ThE wOrLd," yeah, the UK voted to leave the EU and ousted a party to replace them with Labour who don't want to hold another referendum on the vote.

India continues to elect the populist and nationalist Modi as their PM, because he gives them bags of rice with his name on them and tells them it's ok to hate Muslims.

Germany is flirting with fascism again, and they've got all the stuff Americans are apparently too fucking stupid to get done, right?

Dutch police just rounded up a bunch of pro-Palestinian protesters, protesting peacefully, and then started beating them for not moving fast enough.

Oh, and the majority of European countries are freaking the fuck out about immigration and the floods of immigrants trying to come into their countries. And funnily enough, your politicians speak about immigrants the same way our Republicans do.

But you're right, the people who weren't alive 50 years ago when all of this should have been done, yeah, that's our fucking fault too, right?

They raised over a billion dollars after Harris got the nomination.

They spent a quarter of that on sending door knockers to the same people's houses 2-3 times.

And they donate money to Republican outsider campaigns to try to siphon votes off the Republican incumbent (who they usually still lose to anyway).

They would absolutely spend millions of dollars thinking they were going to lose. It's not their money, and their lives will not change whether it's spent or not.

Yep, and I have friends who have a lot of their social events and stuff there. I usually politely decline if I'm invited.

Gotta love when users go to insulting intelligence and acting like them screaming their argument louder makes them more corrector.

You're lived experience is yours, it's not the lived experience of everyone. Not everyone has the means, money, ability, or desire to just sell everything they own and start over somewhere new, completely alone.

So, once again, not everyone can just drop everything, hop in a plane, and hope the new country takes them in with zero issue.

You're also a man, I assume, since you mentioned a deceased wife and then your children. And since you're German, odds are you're also white. So how easy is it for the Arab trans woman to just drop everything and be accepted in a completely new country with no rights as a non-citizen?

Oh wait, they're just being silly, they should just be a white man from a European country, and follow your exact life path because it's the only possible way, and any other way is lazy.

You're laughably out of touch, and since you've resorted to insults, I'm done with this conversation. I swear Lemmy is worse than Reddit, ffs.

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I'm goad this worked out for you (despite you never naming which country you immigrated from and which you emigrated to). But I assume you're not American, and haven't actually looked into this. And you're wildly, wildly out of touch if you think your exception to the rule is somehow the rule.

Yes, they do care if you're American, yes they do care what degrees and certifications you hold, and yes, they do expect you to be proficient in the language. I've looked into, parts of Canada require you to have a certain level of proficiency in French. The Netherlands want you proficient in Dutch, the countries that people want to move to require language proficiency if your only language is English.

Your advice is basically drop everything, move somewhere, and hope they don't deport you. Wow, what a way to live a life, why hasn't everyone in America done this, and if it's so easy, why do all these countries have these application processes and wait times and language tests? Why do so few Americans actually emigrate every year?

Must be because we're all stupid and don't understand you just move somewhere, live in squalor for an indefinite period of time (minimum two years, it sounds like), and then everything just works out. Wow, it's so easy.

And how long did it take to learn the language? Was it done beforehand? What skills do you have? What country were you immigrating to, and which were you emigrating from? How much money did you have put aside, and what did you liquidate? What was the legal process like, and did you receive help? Were you allowed to live permanently in your new country before being granted citizenship? Did you have any connections in your new country? Did you have any sort of employment lined up? How did you and your family survive if you just up and moved? Did you have any pets and what was the process to have them emigrated vis vaccines, physical, breed/species restrictions, etc?

You act like everyone who may want to leave can just sell their positions, buy a plane ticket, and start over with the money in their pocket and the clothes on their back, and with enough hard work, they can get through it. Yeah, maybe. But it's not like you apply tomorrow and are granted citizenship a week later and you're on your way. There is months/years of work that goes into the emigration process, and it varies wildly by country.

But the reality is, most countries don't want American immigrants, and even when they do, they normally expect you to already be proficient at the new language and will test for it (which can take month/years to learn for people), and they're normally looking for specific occupations or qualifications. They don't want brick layers and retail associates, they want software engineers and nurses and doctors.

Didn't Trump try this with the DEA and states that legalised marijuana? Something about they wanted to start going after individuals and stuff because it's still federally illegal?

I just remember a majority of the state's said, "Go for it, but we're not helping you in any way." And they basically dropped it.

I'm hopeful similar situations will hold.

Unfortunately, we don't all have the choice to jump ship. 🤷‍♀️

I wasn't fired, but I resigned from a brewery/coffee shop I worked at after only 7 shifts. Context: I'm trans and in the closet still.

Hired as a cook for this brewery, and based on the interview, I'm one of the more "experienced" cooks on the team, and they (owners) were hoping I'd be able to help make the kitchen more professional. It's a part-time gig, so sure, I'll do what I can.

Well, the kitchen was too small for the facility. They would have to stop taking orders on busy nights an hour before close because they didn't have the space to get through the 40+ orders that came in within 5 minutes of each other. Orders from both the bar, the cafe they had, and to go orders.

They're menu was fine, surprisingly, they didn't stretch themselves too thin. But the staff were... Rough. The kitchen supervisor couldn't believe I owned a chef's coat, nevermind actually showed up to work in one since everyone just wore t-shirts (no aprons, as far as I could find). I told the owners they should have chef coats, it's a safety thing, etc, idk if that ever happened.

Anyway, the kitchen supe would spend 90% of the shift video chatting with various friends/family/etc during his shift, loudly dropping the n-word every other word while we're cooking and cleaning and prepping. All on the line, not even in an office or something, in the middle of the kitchen. I've had managers who are lazy, that's fine, but I've never had one that unprofessional.

There were like 2-3 shifts though where the bulk of the conversation amongst the kitchen staff were LGBTQ+ focused: I'm not sure I could love my daughter if she was a lesbian, I don't understand this stuff, it's a mental illness, trans people, etc. If it had happened once, fine, whatever. But over 2-3 different shifts, and the supervisor is taking part? No, I'm not cool with that.

My last shift, I'm annoyed and pretty over my coworkers based on their views I got to listen to, but trying to just get through it. I'm working the deep fryer, reheating some chicken wings. Pull the basket up and grab the thermometer to temp them when the supervisor calls over, "Oh, no, you don't need to temp those, they're already cooked!"

I pulled him aside after and asked him about that, and he goes, "Yeah, we already cooked them to 165°F before we cooled and stored them. You've just gotta get em heated up again, you don't have to temp them."

I send an almost 2-page long resignation to the owners the next day, explaining that I did not appreciate the conversations taking place in the kitchen and the opinions about people my coworkers had, people who may very well he standing in the room with them.

But I really harped on the fact that the kitchen supervisor, the supervisor, didn't seem to be familiar with health code policies. Any good that's already been cooked and then cooled must be brought back to 165°F when being reheated, that's, like, one of those food safety things every pro cook should know, nevermind a supervisor.

I advised they may want to send their supervisors for food safety retraining before they made a customer sick, and that there were too many issues within the kitchen for me to help them without basically cleaning house and starting over.

This is what I've been trying to get across to the people screeching about anyone who didn't vote versus voting for Harris (I voted for Harris, just fyi, begrudgingly).

Voters were vocally and publically opposed to the genocide in Palestine being aided by the Biden admin, but the DNC would not back down, making these half-ass "Well, if Israel crossed the fifth line we drew, ooh, they're really in for it this time! That next phone call, I'm gonna use the F word!"

Voters were making their concerns and their internal conflict known online, and they were either outright attacked for being a Trump supporter (y'know, instead of a human being trying to weigh which lives matter more in their voting decision). Or, you were told that we just had to bite the bullet "one more time," and then this time we'll be able to get the party to listen to us, and start to move in progressive directions.

But when you pointed out that there was no way to know the DNC would actually listen based on 2016 and 2020, and the fact the longer the campaign went on the further right Harris and her policies shifted... You were dismissed and screamed at for being a Trump supporter.

And this just proves to me that the DNC was never, has never, and will never compromise with their voting base on anything. Period. Even now, what are DNC pundits going on the news and saying? "The voters failed us, the DNC went too far left this election, the voters are tired of "wOkE" policies, I've even heard two Democratic politicians throw trans people under the bus.

The party of supposed LGBTQ+ lost an election and immediately turned on one of the most marginalized groups of their voting base.

But no, no, they'll totally listen to us after we get them elected and give them over a billion dollars in campaign money. 🙄

Ok, what about passengers?

What about kids? Should they start go right from ABC's to the Tesla Model Y 2020-2021 Owners Manual?

What if it's a rental, do you sit down and read the owners manual in the parking lot of the rental place before you go anywhere?

Door handles have basically been an industry standard as they are (mechanical) because of form and function. They just work, there is zero reason that door handles need to be electric and have a manual emergency release. The only reason I could grasp from the smallest straws was aesthetics: they look cooler/go better with the car.

Lamborghinis and Ferrari's have mechanical door handles, if it's good enough for them, it should be good enough for Musk.