I don’t think it’s anyone’s place to comment on - or even muse about what a group of men get up to at a private dinner party.
That’s their business. Now, don’t misunderstand me. There are times when I’ve conducted myself with a questionable level of propriety. That was in my youthful days though.
I’m heterosexual, but when a group of just men get together (especially in the presence of alcohol) I’ve noticed that the dawn piper starts to play at noon, if you understand my meaning. I’m not high society. I’m a man’s man, meat and potatoes. I live in the real world.
If after several glasses of wine and dessert, if were winding down with coffee and scotch…would I mind if another guest made comments about my body? I don’t think so. Even if I was sober, I’m secure and confident. Another man (drunk or no) making a harmless pass at me isn’t threatening, it’s playful. Besides, I don’t judge other men. I’m not here to make anyone feel less than about their lifestyle.
Whatever you want to do? That’s fine with me. I’ve been in many situations that, despite the fact I’m not “that way” I found them very mysterious and arousing. Perhaps, JP Journe (he is European after all) found himself in a compromising position at this dinner party with men that are nervous and new school?
I’m old school. I don’t lecture other men. If FP Journe were to sit next to me on a couch, away from the other guests and attempted to explore his desires for me, I wouldn’t rebuff him. He’s old and harmless. He’s French, so I’m assuming he’s uncircumcised. The French are very good kissers and - in my experience - attentive lovers. I am a giving lover as well.
I don’t know any of this for sure, it’s all just casual musings. We’re all friends here and we’re just talking. It’s just light banter, theory crafting if you will. There’s no real intent behind it. I just like sharing my thoughts with all of you.
These days? I live the quiet life with the lovely woman I’ve been married to for 13 years. I don’t normally stir my coffee with a soup spoon, if you understand my meaning. The opportunities to discuss these aspects of life with someone other than my wife rarely come up, so I have to make the most of it when I can.
I’m old fashioned, so I don’t normally pose these topics to my social group.
I’m conversational.
I keep to myself.