Cris_Color

My advice is to learn a lot as much as you can about polyamory, and how to go about it in a healthy succesful way. Until you're equiped to understand how different the relationship dynamics can be it will be hard to give useful advice or support, or know when things are not in a good place.

Polyamory can be a perfectly reasonable and healthy, if untraditional way of doing relationships, but it can also very easily be unhealthy, especially if the relationship is polyamorous for the wrong reason.

Ultimately what would be most important to me is that my kid is healthy and emotionally safe, and until you know enough to evaluate those things, it will be very hard to know whether your kid is in a good spot and navigating a style of relationship you're unfamiliar with, or being taken advantage of while navigating something that is also likely very new for them, or somewhere in between as everyone involved navigates uncharted territories as young adults, making mistakes along the way (which to be fair, is developmentally normal.)

I very much agree with the other comment about twice the risk. I had a very painful experience with attempting to be poly when it was a poor fit for me and my then-partner, but I have friends who are poly who are profoundly happy to have found the type of relationship that is fulfilling and feels right for them 🤷‍♂️. Its not for everyone, and there are definitely ways of going about it that are likely to end in heartache, but for many people it's a revelation that there are no rules for love, and that they're free to assemble whatever type of relationship they feel is right for them.

I wish you the best friend, parenting a child who is neavigating things you are fundamentally unprepared to help with because they're alien to you is more than a little bit scary. The best you can do is learn a lot, try to understand where they are, and try to support them in building a healthy life with healthy relationships, even if it doesn't make a ton of sense to you.

I was curious to learn more so I looked at their website- their database is community built and crowdsourced rather than being run by a company

https://www.themoviedb.org/about

The Movie Database (TMDB) is a community built movie and TV database. Every piece of data has been added by our amazing community dating back to 2008.

EDIT! I take that back! Showcase has a link to look something up on JuatWatch!

Thank you so much for the recommendation, I can replace JustWatch now, that's one more proprietary app gone! And the interface looks excellent!

I wish either would show me where I can watch things like justwatch, but I guess if I'm transitioning more towards piracy it doesn't matter.

But if there's a way to watch something without pirating it, it's nice to know where I can do that. I recognize that'd be massively more difficult for an open source project though

If we don't have a state delegate should we just pick the closest state?

I honestly can't fathom people identifying with what one would describe as "backlash against the metoo movement"

"Can't stand hearing all those women say they were raped or sexually harassed. I just won't tolerate it."

I already do that cause I'm broke as shit 😅 most of what I let myself buy is stuff that makes it a little easier to manage my sleep disorder

Once again, one of the very rare few areas where ai isn't a completely shitty solution: tasks that are worthwhile and important, but that require labor no one is willing to pay for.

Others include translation, transcription, and image descriptions. Things people won't put resources into but that should happen anyway

The only problem is that these have nothing to do with why massive companies are investing in this tech. If AI didn't enable the equivalent of money laundering for intellectual labor, the billionaires wouldn't give a shit

That looks awesome! I'm deeply nostalgic for that period of time, material design was the big thing when I was first getting into UI design and I was absolutely in love with it

Klwp and Kwgt are still a blast, that's what almost all of my stuff is made out of, but iOS has its pros as well :) from what I hear things are progressively getting a little more customizable, if still pretty locked down

At some point I'd like to get a little better at animations so I can make my setup feel a little more alive, but for the time being it's mostly just static elements

Lol, I'm somewhat similar. I'm a big ui/ux nerd but don't have professional or academic experience other than some pro-bono work in high-school. But I love tinkering with my phone's homesceen and other similar little projects. I'm hoping to make a neocites page soon!

This is my previous phone's homescreen I posted a while back:

https://mastodon.online/@CrisColor/111440259435482295

I've gotten a new phone since then and am still getting it updated to fit properly on a new screen, so right now it looks a little jank 😅 but it's always interesting to hear how other people feel differently about aesthetics than yourself!

Thanks for your thoughts, I appreciate it. I'll see if I can learn more about groups in my area.

Interesting, thanks for sharing your perspective with me! ☺️

I'm curious how you feel about the GNOME application icons, they sound like they might be up your alley

Right now I generally have a preference for either weird stylized themed stuff I make myself, or very flat stuff like what android currently does for app icons, but I can certainly see the appeal of other stuff :)

I really like the application icons used in Gnome but I really like the consistent line weights and geometry of material symbolic icons so I'm still using a material icon pack on gnome

Edit: Here's a picture I grabbed of icons done in the adwaita style Gnome uses in case you don't use linux and aren't familiar with them. Its not a full sampling, but you get the idea :)