EssentialNPC

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Pan seared lamb loin chops with pilaf, roast acorn squash and broccoli.

I am working on getting my family back into nice Sunday dinners. It is a habit we fell out of when the pandemic hit. I would really like to get back into having nice dinners with guests again.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Friend, I am having a hard day, but you made it nicer. Thank you for sharing.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Certainly! Working from the top of my head, it was roughly:

  • ~5 lbs. short ribs (9 ribs)
  • 3 onions, chopped
  • 2 carrots, chopped
  • 2 heads garlic, cut in half
  • 2 Tbsp. tomato paste
  • 1 Tbsp. gochujang
  • 2 tsp. fish sauce
  • 3 sprigs each fresh thyme and rosemary
  • 4 cups beef stock
  • ~½ bottle red wine - I used Cabernet

I seared the beef, then I sauteed the onions, carrots, and garlic head halves until browned. Then I added the tomato paste and gochujang, sauteed some more, and then added the training ingredients. I like the beef back in, brought to a simmer, and tossed in a 300°F oven with the lid ajar for about 3 hours, turning the ribs occasionally. You need to fish out the garlic at the end.

The polenta was:

  • 4 cups water
  • 2 cups milk
  • 1½ cups corn meal
  • ~1 cup shredded gruyere
  • 4 Tbsp. butter

I boiled the water and milk, swore while it over boiled and made a need of my stove, cleaned it up, and then beat in the corn meal. I stirred it regularly for half an hour and finished by mixing in the cheese and butter.

I totally salted everything to taste because I am not a savage.

The gremolata on top is just a mix of chopped parsley, garlic, lemon zest, and some salt.

It was not hard for a fancy dish. I hope you enjoy!

I got the basic recipe idea from a random post when I read it on the website that shall not be named, and then I had fun with it as I went.

 

This one came out excellent, and I am very happy with it. It is a pretty typical red wine braise for the short ribs, but with some gochujang and a little bit of fish sauce added for extra umami. I will 100% make this for company now that I have tried it out.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts is a not-for-profit health insurance company. I am not sure that it is a full mutual company, but they have no profit incentive. Consequently, they are the best health insurance we have ever had by a wide margin.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Good documentation should, in part, tell people where to click. I have designed software documentation for high performing individuals at leading global companies, and I have designed software and hardware documentation for minimum wage fast food workers with limited English proficiency. In both extremes, I showed them exactly where to click on the screen at each step.

You might not need that level of help, but many people do. Others do not strictly need it, but they prefer the simple instruction set. "Click here then here," instructions ease the transition into a new system one needs to learn, or it removes the need entirely to learn a system one uses infrequently.

The problem is that making good documentation is difficult and time consuming. It relies on a fundamentally different skill set than coding or even UI design.

I agree that the ideal is for software to not need any documentation. In my experience, I have yet to see software that rises to that task and is used across a variety of experience levels and societal cross sections.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

On the other hand, I very much appreciate knowing which celebrities support an administration that poses a threat to my family. I will not vote for someone based on a celebrity endorsement, but the celebrity may gain or lose my business over it.

I really liked Kid Rock in his early days. The music was catchy, and it had the right mix of redneck, rock, and rap to make this country boy happy. Now I won't listen to him because he chose to openly throw in with politicians who do not care if their policies and rhetoric kill my friends or kids.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 7 points 9 months ago

Because it is wrong.

I am not judging sexual practices. I am judging those who choose to betray their partner. Here is the person he is most committed to in this world, the person who expects undying loyalty in exchange for the same in return, and he is seemingly shitting all over that vow.

If you only care about practicality, then consider that one will not care for the people in general if they cannot care for those closer to them. Honesty and compassion mean nothing to this man.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I wear a Tilley Airflo pretty much any time I am outside.

I need a wide broom to protect my eyes from the sun (early cataracts). I need a hat that is useful for outdoor fun but also looks good around town. I do not want to worry about rain or have a lot of upkeep.

I wash my Tilley in the machine. I get compliments everywhere I go. It works great on the trail, and looks great paired with a sport coat for a country-boy-on-the-town sort of look. I can't recommend that hat enough.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 37 points 9 months ago

They want my wife and children dead. If they are near my family, they pose an existential threat. I will leave saving the proverbial souls of neo Nazis to others. I am interested in establishing that my family is off limits and dangerous for them to so much as look at.

Would I throw a punch at a confirmed Nazi? Without hesitation.

Some people learn to shed the racism from their heart and become better people. Some will only get so far as keeping quiet because they are afraid. There will always be severely racist people. It is just as important that they feel unequivocally unwelcome as it is to change those who will change.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 76 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

'Democrats have a plan'

She lost me right there. As a Democrat, I feel confident in stating that we have never had such a thing.

It is a truth so old that Will Rogers was cracking jokes about it 100 years ago.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 52 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Daily alcohol: blunts my emotional pain, causes awful feelings in my stomach, does damage to multiple organ systems, is physically addictive, and gives you a hangover the next day.

Daily THC and other cannabinoids consumed via edibles: blunts my emotional pain, blunts my physical pain, has a minor effect on working memory when used over years that does not further inhibit cognitive ability or motivation, is not physically addictive, and has no impact on the next day.

Used to self medicate in vaguely controlled doses, it is a no-brainer. MJ is not perfect by any means, but it is world better than booze for frequent users.

[–] EssentialNPC@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My children have received autism-specific therapy and learned key NT social skills from it. I am happy to share my understanding of their experience, but I would ask permission first since this question was directed at autistic people and my official role in the family as dad and husband is being "the most neurotypical one."

Edit to add: they have learned skills that help them navigate life, including life in a NT dominant world. I hesitate to label them as NT skills because they are used by my autistic children and maybe the actual skill is approached differently, but that is probably pedantic.

 

How would you go about selecting a Certified Financial Planner?

My wife and I are financially successful adults, but we need guidance with the next steps, including:

  • Private equity co-investment
  • College savings for children with special needs who may or may not attend university
  • Retirement savings beyond the standard 401k and IRA options
  • The tax ramifications of all of the above

My friends are generally not at this level of planning needs, so those who have worked with a CFP have had only much more basic questions. We have known plenty of financial advisers over the years who just give bad advice or canned advice. I expect our needs will become more complex over the next decade.

How do we find a quality CFP who can help with the above? What is a reasonable price to pay for this help?

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts!

 

The Federal Trade Commission narrowly voted Tuesday to ban nearly all noncompetes, employment agreements that typically prevent workers from joining competing businesses or launching ones of their own.

 

The prime rib was roasted at 200° F to 123° internal temperature and then reverse seared.

The pommes puree had some of the butter replaced with rendered bacon fat. Then fresh mini mozzarella balls and chives were added.

The carrots are pretty much as described.

My boys declared the potatoes to be the hit of the night, which I get. Dang are they rich!

 

Yeah, it's a Pillsbury Grands cinnamon roll topped with Ben & Jerry's Churray for Churros ice cream, salted caramel, and whipped cream.

I mean, this stuff is life.

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