Icytrees

It's always been more of a bitter apertif than the main course, to me. Not particularly satisfying unless shared with company.

It sucks when I realize the only thing keeping me in shape is social anxiety.

Fat and happy is still better than skinny and crazy.

Guys, I don't have a prostate.

I may drive down to visit my friend's states from time to time.

I still think Macron did it.

People keep their bagels in the fridge?

I did comment on the main post. And now I'm choosing to disengage.

I joined in July 2023 (on my first account on .world) and had nearly the opposite experience. I expect a certain amount of misogny in male dominated online spaces and it's definitely not sunshine and roses here, as per the occasional trolls who hop into the women's only community, but my first thoughts were of how little toxicity I saw, compared to other platforms.

That said, I curate my feed, mainly stick to communities I subscribe to, and (usually) disengage when the communication isn't effective.

The Argonaut Melampus cured the insanity of the daughters of Proteus with hellebore and urged them to join with young and strong men. Melampus believed woman's madness derived from their uterus being poisoned with 'venomous humors', due to a lack of orgasms.

Thanks for being a bro, the Argonaut Melampus.

More to the point, I migrated from lemmy.world to sh.itjust.works by going through the instance list here: https://join-lemmy.org/ ...and picking an active one in my country with a list of rules I could live with.

But as others have said, it's basically the same experience unless you pick an instance with aggressive rules and/or defederated from the ones you don't like. Otherwise you're just seeing the same people and communities.

I don't think I've ever had an issue with a blahaj user, so there's that.

Don't have one.

Depending on your workplace, there may be avenues for making complaints. If someone is being rude/unreasonable, it could help to direct them with something like: "I understand this is a difficult situation. We're trying to navigate it and will follow up in (time) at (contact.) If you have complaints about how we've handled this, here is the (name/number/e-mail.)" This redirects their energy and gives them a solid plan to follow. Sometimes people just like it when there's a plan.

Moving location can ease tension. You can say "Hi, I'm (name,) would you like to come over here and explain what's going on?"

If you avoid conflict, it could help to explain those feelings to your coworker and just ask them what you can do to help them (as you have.) Or discuss difficult scenerios they have to deal with and give you clear suggestions on what to do in (x) situation. People like plans, again.

If you work at a hospital and someone is legitimately having a meltdown over something, as in they're being completely irrational and may turn violent, can you call a psych nurse/doc/security?

Alternatively, I knew a security guard who always carried saltwater taffy in his pockets. If people got heated, he would throw it on the ground and go "Look! Candy!" He said it was effective 100% of the time.

I'm on new antidepressants so I can't reach the finish line but they upped my adderall, too, so I have the motivation to keep trying. I'm real sore, guys.