Little8Lost

joined 2 years ago
[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Happy cake day

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

In my case it helped greatly to tell others that i have a fear of human touch even though that was not accurate at all but others understood easier and knew what to dont.

[the rest you can skip, i got carried away a bit]

Then at some point i actually developed a fear without noticing: fear of the touch consequences. In retrospect it was very stressful with all the mindfulness to track everyones movements and directional intentions.

After switching schools i could not avoid others anymore and did go into confrontation therapy (handshakes & hugs, mostly worked because i was the one innitiating/controlling) which got rid of the hyperventilating panic and switched it to something mostly neutral and dependent to person. But except my bf and close family i dont seek out touches activly because i still feel it.

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

It probably helps against making it worse. My father always told about the 30-30-30 rule.

Every 30 minutes

For 30 seconds

Looking at least 30 Meters into the distance

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yes but how much?

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Even better when having some sirup at home (but dont put the sirup into the soda bottles especially before adding soda)

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

It helped me a great deal to get a hydration backpack usually intended for sports. I dont even leave the pc a lot but its 3L of water storage that can be consumed while having both hands free (except start&end for like 3 seconds). It needs a bit of getting used to drinking out of a mouth piece but else its the most convinient way of drinking water

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Are Tim Apple and John Apple somehow related?

 

Acrophylla alta

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Like the other comment: unspoilered apider is bad. I agree that spiders are nice "self sustaining pets" (and i think they cute) but please dont scare people because someone olse rubbed you the wrong way. Fear is sadly an AOE attack

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 8 points 4 weeks ago

interesting how the human body can develop such perfect planes of nerves, and not only one but three of them

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

i think that is autim or however its spelled

 
 

template source (its basically the same meme but better) https://lemmy.world/post/43633002

 

I may should get out of the bathtub now...

 
 

I am bad at explaining but i can visualize something like the blue "guideline" (or arrows) in this image

And i simply want to know how this ability is called

It would be different from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apophenia because i can add things and not only see connections/patterns

 

Its meant as a broad question as i would like some diverse input.
I have an "unfit" and rigid ruleset of how i define friends and how someone can be one.
It roots in my insecurities and want a starting point to redefine it in a healtier way.

 

Alt: A screenshot from the book "Simple Sabotage Field Manual" with the text: "It also can be conveyed directly: statements praising the effectiveness of simple sabotage can be contrieved which will be published by white radio, freedem stations, and the subversive press."

 

I may am affected by brainrot

 

basically its about getting the number below "Verhältnis" (translated to something like ratio) getting as big as possible

 
 

I dont know if this is a meme or just scribbles

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