Notyou

joined 1 year ago
[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 12 points 4 months ago

Don't get me started on the oxford comma.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

SMB 3 was a big deal when it came out. Not only was the game a delight to play, but they had a whole ass movie where they "debuted" the game at the end of it. The whole movie was pretty much a long Nintendo commercial showing different games and the power glove and all. The end was a video game competition and SMB 3 was the surprise game. They even showed where to get the first warp whistle.

I liked that movie.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Not who you replied to, and Gaiman may be innocent, but we should listen and find out. The "absolutely reasonable assumption" is probably based on his age and how he was raised.

I don't know how many men you dealt with that were raised with the mindset of "if she said yes once it means she says yes ALL THE TIME," but some men feel that way. Hell a very famous and still popular movie has "Tell me more. Tell me more. Did she put up a fight?" In the opening of the movie. It seems kind of reasonable to me to assume being raised that "no" is something you have to "fight through" might mess with head.

I'm not trying to justify any actually actions. I'm just saying I would listen to the victims before I dismiss the accusations just because I like the art he makes.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 months ago

If you say so. The air just feels a lot more cool and crisp in my apartment when I have my dehumidifier on. Of course I live in a swamp so without it if feels like I swimming through stank ass when I walk somewhere.

I'm not doubting the science behind your statement. I just prefer feeling like I'm not being sous vide, so I'll stick to a dry heat in my apartment.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 months ago

I never played Outer Wilds and I don't know anything about it, but I absolutely love Disco Elysium and Hollow Knight. I might check out Outer Wilds since I agree with your write ups with the other 2.

Thanks for the rec.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

the second movie was weird but ok

I'm sorry. I mostly agree with your outlook and concerns, but I have never heard anyone heap such HIGH praise onto the second movie.

I also did really like the series, so maybe just a difference of opinion. I do think Cavill would be able to do Highlander some justice for the reboot.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 24 points 4 months ago

Oh great! So someone couldn't pull themselves up by their bootstraps and now they want a hand-out. I bet this "toddler" doesn't even pay taxes.

/s

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I just meant what the food was didn't matter. It was having a good to come together around and share in the togetherness.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz -1 points 5 months ago (3 children)

I know this whole celebration of Juneteenth is new, so the foods will take some time to become official. BBQ and red food is just as good as any other made up meal, in my opinion.

I wish we focused more on black (or at least local) owned businesses for Juneteenth. Of course, holidays get commercialized like crazy, so I'm sure some businesses will pander too much and make a fool of themselves.

On a side note, I heard Japan celebrates Christmas with KFC. Apparently that's the idea that got sold to Japan for how Americans celebrate Christmas. I wouldn't be surprised if some countries think Americans eat burgers and fries for Thanksgiving.

https://www.timeout.com/tokyo/things-to-do/whats-the-deal-with-kfc-and-christmas-in-japan

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

You can delegate responsibility but not accountability. The owners would still be accountable.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 8 points 5 months ago (5 children)

I mean I get that. I just don't personally see it as that. I do eat fried chicken and watermelon (and other soul food like greens, sweet potatoes, etc). I don't eat them as much as I want because the places around me don't make good soul food anymore. The quality is down in my opinion.

I mentioned the day because all holiday celebrations include food. I also mentioned in my opinion, that everyone loves that type of food. I just didn't think of it as "black food" but I know it is stereotypically a trope. I think this understanding of other people's racist tropes and my love of celebrating with loved ones and good food is where I (and assuming OP) is coming from.

Is the main issue the intent? If you eat corned beef for St Paddy's or carne asada for Cinco de Mayo is that an issue? If we ask black people what we should eat for Black History Month or Juneteenth and they agreed that soul food is good then is it okay? Should we just stick to burgers and dogs like it's the 4th of July?

I feel we can never really have these conversations (IRL) because people assume what the other person means when they are trying to understand the reason behind it.

All that to say, we have to be extra vigilant because racists are everywhere pushing their agenda, so I understand that this trope could be insulting to some. I've also met black people that don't give it a second thought because the food is good and they were hungry.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 31 points 5 months ago (11 children)

This question reminds me of when that school in NY got in trouble for serving "stereotype food" for black history month.

https://www.cnn.com/2023/02/06/us/aramark-black-history-month-menu-school-reaj/index.html

I have the same confusion as you do, OP. It appears to be a liked dish by all accounts across many races, upbringings, or religions. Unless you have dietary restrictions like Vegan or something.

I'm assuming this is one of the things that racists ruined. Like yeah people like fried chicken, but racist made it a "bad thing." It's kind of like now, you got to look out for the number 88, vikings, the okay sign, the gadsden flag, or punisher flag. It's not that mentioning fried chicken is necessary bad, but people are on edge because Nazi's are back. 1 of the dog whistles might be a coincidence, but you start collecting them and I start side eyeing my co-workers more.

Those damn dog whistles need to end, so we can all enjoy fried chicken and watermelon on Juneteenth.

view more: ‹ prev next ›