IMO, blurring a house in Street View could lead to the Streisand effect, especially when 99% of all other property is unblurred.
If you want to remain private, in the case of Street View, your best bet is to keep it as inconspicuous as possible, otherwise people will start looking closer and ask questions; the exact opposite of what you want, even if you have nothing to hide.
This is pretty common for people on the Autistic spectrum. We don't get the guide on how to properly act around people, so we mask by emulating the people we like and want to relate to.
I'm not a doctor or a therapist, but I wouldn't worry too much about the social chameleon thing unless it's actively causing rifts in your friendships. Instead, it sounds like you need to work on your willingness to look for and respect other people's boundaries so as not to appear clingy. I do want to recognize that doing that will be much harder than just speaking it aloud–it's something I'm working on myself–but it sounds like you've already kind of come to that conclusion yourself already.