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[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 1 day ago (8 children)

sorry, what else would a reddit-clone full of reddit users be? I think a lot of people here are trying hard for this place to be reddit 🤷‍♀️

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

to be honest, the inability of "humanity" to overcome and prevent climate disasters and prioritize the well-being and longevity of humanity makes me skeptical we have such a long-term future, i.e. the future on a geologic scale is irrelevant to us as a species

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

over those timelines I'm not sure we can assume stability of ideas like planets and so on, sure - there might be some way of looking at this as a predictable system with overarching patterns that allow us to reasonably conclude some events are not possible past a certain point, but applying that specifically to a planet over a timeline like the heat death of the universe has problems like being too narrow in what is considered possible - I don't know whether it's genuinely impossible for some organism or natural event to intercede and create the conditions that bring about previously impossible geologic events again (you even consider this kind of possibility when suggesting Earth could survive the death of the Sun). The question seems somewhat broad and I'm not sure what you are really asking, to be honest.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (5 children)

there seems to be some confusion, naming an epic after a major event doesn't imply a similar event will never happen again in the future...

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

In the film there is a villain character named Buffalo Bill who murders young women and harvests their skin to make a woman suit they can wear to feel like a woman, presented as a sexual fetish (this is a debunked pseudoscience concept of "autogynephilia"). The character does this after being rejected by gender-affirming clinics for being mentally unstable and not being a "true transexual".

There is a famous scene where Buffalo Bill has abducted a woman and keeps her in a well, and a basket with lotion is sent down and Buffalo Bill says a now famous line: "It rubs lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again." This is a threat to get her to moisturize and take care of her skin, since that's what is intended to be harvested from her.

There's another iconic scene when Buffalo Bill is putting on makeup and jewelry and in the mirror saying "Would you fuck me? ... I would fuck me. I would fuck me. I would fuck me so hard." Then Buffalo Bill dances in front of a camera wearing the skin of women while dressed in women's clothes.

This is perhaps one of the most impactful instances of transphobia in film, and served as an anchor in the 1990s for how people thought about trans women, as deranged psychopathic perverts (similar to how at the time all gay men were believed to be pedophile rapists).

There were even protests held against the film at the time.

Since OP's post is about lotion and criminality, my assumption is that some Silence of the Lambs joke is inevitable, so I thought I'd get ahead of it.

EDIT: I missed that the top comment response was a Silence of the Lambs joke. Oops.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

I'm sure a cock champion can be found on Tinder with minimal effort.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

meanwhile, propaganda:

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

something something transphobic Silence of the Lambs joke

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You got it! It's really an excellent video essay.

I'm just now starting to work through his other works, but everything he does is magic. Honestly the topic of "I Don't Know James Rolfe" was basically as dull as the dictionary to me, but I enjoyed it anyway.

Currently working my way through his "Mantracks" video, which is so far about fossils and creationism.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

just gently suggesting both can be true - he was problematic before the stroke, but the stroke could also be playing a role in what by all accounts seems to be a change in behavior and long-held policy positions which started after the stroke. Even Fetterman himself thinks the stroke is what was responsible for this change: https://newrepublic.com/post/182504/john-fetterman-abandon-progressives-bill-maher

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

you can always use a cheaper bike at first and then buy a touring bike if you end up commuting more, a variety of bikes will work but you don't need anything specialized like a gravel bike, a hybrid would work fine. Just wouldn't go with a road bike for the grass and dirt paths.

 

this loaf was made with 100% freshly milled wheat berries as the flour!

 

loaf of white bread I baked in April 2025

 

the chapter on the history of Western philosophy's view on women was particularly disturbing - in summary, women aren't people.

e.g. Aristotle thought women were naturally mutilated, deformed versions of men. Hegel compared women to plants.

The idea of women being worthy of literacy and education, let alone being a professional like a lawyer, are all shockingly recent changes.

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  • cucumbers sprinkled with salt and sugar, then soaked in vinegar
  • cashew cream was made by blending cashews, a sprinkle of salt, and a few tsp of sherry vinegar to taste
  • omelette fillings include cheddar shredded cheez, nutritional yeast, spinach, bell pepper, and black olives
 

Autogynophilia (AGP) is a debunked pseudo-science concept that trans women are motivated to transition primarily as a sexual fetish, and Mike White confirmed on a podcast with the anti-trans conservative Andrew Sullivan that the Sam Rockwell monologue in s03e05 is autogynophilic.

Here is a clip from the podcast on Reddit: https://old.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/1joh7dd/creator_of_white_lotus_mike_white_appears_on/

For more about autogynophilia, see Julia Serano's article on the topic.

(see also Julia Serano's post on the White Lotus episode before Mike White went on to confirm he meant to reference AGP)

This comes after Mike White removed a scene mentioning a non-binary character from the show after Trump won the election:

“You originally found out that her daughter was actually nonbinary, maybe trans, and going by they/them,” Coon said. “You see Laurie struggling to explain it to her friends, struggling to use they/them pronouns, struggling with the language, which was all interesting.”

“It was only a short scene, but for me, it did make the question of whether Kate voted for Trump so much more provocative and personally offensive to Laurie, considering who her child is in the world,” Coon added.

According to the actor, Trump’s re-election made series creator Mike White hesitate about including that character detail in the final cut.

“The season was written before the election. And considering the way the Trump administration has weaponized the cultural war against transgender people even more since then, when the time came to cut the episode down, Mike felt that the scene was so small and the topic so big that it wasn’t the right way to engage in that conversation,” Coon continued.

Coon also said that White handles his characters with nuance: “They’re not just one thing.”

In another article it was clarified the scene was cut due to a political "vibe shift":

“The Trump thing becomes much more offensive to Laurie because of her daughter, but this was before Trump was reelected and before this war on the trans community was escalated,” Coon said, despite the fact that Republicans have been filing anti-trans legislation at the state level for the entirety of the 2020s. The actor added, “Mike felt that it was actually too political, or too far, or too distracting.”

White responded, saying that that conversation “felt right in March of last year.”

“Now, there’s a vibe shift. I don’t think that it was radical, but that’s not the kind of attention I want,” he said. “The politics of it could overwhelm whatever ideas I’m trying to talk about. And a lot of it was about time. Every episode is bulging at 60 minutes.”

I also got the sense from this season that conservative Christianity was given a more serious place, a kind of reverence, alongside Buddhism (which is a departure from the previous two seasons). There is the relevance of the Christian choir to the husband character, but there is also a Trump supporting conservative character:

In the far-ranging conversation, the cast discussed the reveal in episode three that Leslie Bibb’s character, Kate Bohr, is a Republican. “I do think people like Meghan McCain and her community are really gratified to see a conservative person on television,” Coon said.

The characters are bad, yes, but it's a thin line between satire and representation. In conjunction with going on a conservative podcast and using anti-trans terminology, there is a sense that Mike White is at best naive and negligent, and at worst bigoted.

Regardless of Mike White's character, meanwhile the anti-trans movement is claiming White Lotus for themselves and using the show to help push AGP into the public consciousness, are attempting to use the moment to promote their junk science ideas that trans women are just fetishists.

 

Polenta and mushrooms in wine sauce, loosely based on this recipe: https://www.rabbitandwolves.com/vegan-creamy-polenta-red-wine-mushrooms/

I felt like mushrooms were not sufficient, so I added tofu (which was too soft, I think maybe soy curls would have been better?). Also didn't have red wine, so I used white wine + red wine vinegar + raisins blended in water to replace the red wine, lol.

 

this was a quick and dirty mac and cheez, normally I would make the cheese from scratch but this time I used some store-bought stuff because I didn't have much time

 

"beef" topped, filling is more "beef" and refried beans.

cheez is made with carrot, potato, cashews, nutritional yeast, white miso, and Sherry vinegar

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