It's also ironic how their goal is to "save democracy." If you can't vote the way you want to without losing that democracy, was it actually a democracy in the first place?
If you just even kinda agree with the above, we should all be furious that Dems are using this opportunity to hold voters hostage while they support genocide. Biden would course correct far faster if the base were as angry as the progressives, and then maybe we could all unite again.
I'm in your camp, but I am also very cynical. I think your reasoning assumes they care if you do/don't vote. They know that they have an army of rubes (both Republicans and Democrats) who will "vote blue no matter who" or whatever the conservative equivalent is. In the last 8 years I have seen many very intelligent people compromise on their supposed values because to do otherwise would be an existential crisis. I don't know how you break through that.