exocrinous

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[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 5 points 7 months ago

How come OP's talking about NPD, which is a disability, and you're talking about abusers? NPD isn't abuse. Did you reply to the wrong post by mistake?

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 1 points 7 months ago (7 children)

NPD doesn't cause manipulation. And people with NPD aren't more likely to abuse others.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

NPD doesn't cause abusive behaviour. That's a made up stereotype.

Also why are you saying this post is bad because "it's the most NPD post ever"? Do you think people with NPD are bad?

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 6 points 7 months ago

I support black rights, but any time somebody says black lives matter, I interrupt them and say that I don't think we should let black people do violent crimes, and say shame on them for enabling black criminals. But I do support black rights.

This is literally the way conservatives talk about people with NPD. It's all "I support equality", but they think equality means a bunch of ableist stereotypes about us being allowed to happen, and they oppose that. Somehow they think they can support the idea of equality for people with disabilities, while complaining any time equality is mentioned.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Leftists: "Support people with mental disorders!"

Conservatives: "They're gonna hunt me for sport!?"

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 1 points 7 months ago

Good thing Risa's still around. The other one bans people for having a mental disorder

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 6 points 7 months ago

I upvoted it. I don't think it's literally just as bad as meta, but I still think it's bad. Websites should let you opt out of cookies in one click. If they don't, I prefer not to use them. I'm sure this website's article is very important, but if they want their journalism to be read they should present it in a respectful manner. Otherwise I'm just reading the headline. I like the headline, it's a good headline, it will inform my views going forward. I will not read the article and I will not give them ad traffic.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This article seems strangely lacking in how it wants this goal to be achieved.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I have kissed my partner on the body lots and lots of times, and I'm okay with that because the only fluids involved are mine. My partner isn't allowed to kiss me back unless I'm really feeling strong and hardy that day, and not on the mouth. It's allowed to bite me, though. Biting feels a lot more natural and a lot less violent.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

I kissed my partner once and it was super gross. I needed to wash my mouth right away. I only did it because it made my partner happy, and I'm glad I did it because my partner was happy, but ew. I like sex much better than kissing because I know how to have sex without involving any fluids. Anyway, if a girl kissed me without consent I would be equally concerned.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 16 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (6 children)

It's gross. I don't want to make you feel insulted, so I'm going to try to be gentle with this, but if a girl drank my beer without asking I'd think that she has poor boundary recognition and that her... hygiene preferences, are incompatible with mine. It would be an immediate and massive turnoff.

I'm sure some people like that, but even if I did like it, it would be a red flag that you did it without asking.

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