housepanther

I actually considered doing port forwarding and NAT for this but I would run into a problem with NAT reflection. I'd have to implement split-brain DNS to avoid this. It's more efficient to simple proxy the connection. If I am unsuccessful, however, I will resort to port forwarding.

Try re-creating the VM from scratch but keep the virtual HD. Sometimes this fixes similar issues. At least you don't have to worry about TPM2 emulation with Windows 10. That's a big positive.

Check out Slack Nebula.I personally like it very much and used it to build a software-defined WAN to support my family's needs. I use a point to point WireGuard tunnel between my VPS and my home network to support self-hosted instances of Mastodon and Lemmy.

I realize this could be a possibility. I don't think it is going to be easy but I'll give it a shot.

Thank you! It never occurred to me to consider haproxy to do something like this and I think it is exactly what I am looking for. It's definitely worth further exploration. My subscription for email service is about to run out and I'd rather not pay for something I don't have to.

Okay, I will give it a try again.

I got into self-hosting quite by accident. I had just started on Mastodon when I saw somebody posted about self-hosting and Cloudflare tunnels. I went to their blog, followed the guides, and next thing I knew I had a fully functioning Mastodon docker instance. From there I began wondering about other ActivityPub services were out there. In January I get rid of the Cloudflare tunnel and stood up a free Oracle VPS.

I created a wireguard tunnel between my home server and my VPS. I then installed nginx on the VPS as a reverse proxy. I've been hooked ever since. I moved my blog to hosting at home. I stood up a Lemmy instance. Next move is standing up a BookWyrm one. I am in now hooked.

I really want to host my own email but I've been rightly disuaded from doing so because the Big Bois don't play well with small email servers, even ones that have been correctly and sanely configured.

I am ex-Facebook user since November of 2017. So far nothing but I recently learned about Friendica. I am curious about it.

+1 for Motorola

I'm sorry but that made no sense to me whatsoever. Are you referring to the creation of an echo chamber? If so you could not be more incorrect. As far as I am concerned, there is no valid argument for painting racism, hatred, and bigotry in positive brush strokes. None whatsoever.

This is unfortunately true. That much said, the tide may be slowly turning in our favor as more and more people discover non-corporate, free and open source social media. Some of my circle of tech friends have deleted all corporate social media and have stood up instances of Mastodon or Akkoma, Friendica, Pixelfed, and Lemmy or Kbin for family.

Eventually, people will be asking themselves why they bother using gmail.com, outlook.com, and yahho.com addresses when they can just do it themselves for friends and family. The internet was never meant to be controlled by a select few corporations. It was always intended to be decentralized to avoid a single point of failure so as to continue to mostly work in the case of war, catastrophe, or both.

I'll say that I really like this idea. The challenge with self-hosting email will always be in the message deliverability to others because the big bois don't play well with smaller mail servers and often route legitimate messages to spam. This is even despite implementing SPF, DKIM, and DMARC properly.