That's been the takeaway from Star Wars since A New Hope.
leraje
"that option because just goes to desalines"
Who is the developer of the software. How they choose to develop Lemmy is up to them - you do have a choice though. Support them or don't. What no one who donates has a choice over is how the developers choose to use the development funds they receive.
Not the point. The issue OP has is with the instance .ml - if they are donating to the developers then they're contributing towards development costs which affect both .ml and every other instance. If that's too much of a hurdle for them, maybe they could switch to donating to their instance admin.
If they had developed a centralised bit of software such as Twitter or Reddit you'd have a point. In that case you can't support one without the other.
On a decentralised bit of software you can support the developers and spend your time on an instance they have no control over. So supporting the developers for development is not the same as supporting any particular instance - thats why a lot of instances accept donations too.
All these billionaires stockpiling in their secure bunkers have clearly never heard of the word 'siege'.
Probably not federated across yet. BTW - you're better using the right structure for linking to communities in post:
[!communityname@instancename.tld](/c/communityname@instancename.tld)
And most of all, a gargantuan ego that refuses to believe anything bad can happen to them.
I'm around your age and whilst I have friends who are around your blind dates age, I would never consider a romantic relationship with someone that age. Its not the number of years so much as the generational thing. I have kids older than that and that's where it goes into weird territory.
Everyone's different and you do you etc but I'd ask your daughter at the very least to inform the other half of this date how old her date is going to be.
Gonna be that guy and mention an alternative - Schildi Chat available for web, desktop and Android. Its based on the Element apps but with some extras. For example if you use the 'Next' variant of the Android app, Spaces work as intended.
You're a bigot who is on a platform that doesn't tolerate bigotry. Off you fuck.
Thats just the main instance, there's a list of public instances there too. I don't think development is stopping, just hosting an instance
Blast it.