marron12

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[–] marron12@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I don't disagree with that, but I do think it's like physical healing. Sometimes, no matter what you do, things just aren't the same afterwards. And that's OK. You do the best with what you have, or you try, and sometimes it's easier than others.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Not the person you replied to, but I'd be curious to know. Especially about time off work, healthcare, and cost of living.

I could write a book about those things, but I'll just say this. I get 5 sick days a year (used to be 3) and it's hard to take them when there's a lot of work, which is almost always. The rent on my last apartment almost doubled in 10 years, and the current one is on track to do the same.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I got some pretty nice headphones a while back. Not the really high end ones or anything, but good enough that I can get lost in the shapes, textures, and sometimes colors of the different instruments. Like someone else said, it's a bit like being high.

Cheap studio monitors are fun too because they really separate out the sounds. It can make me a little tired, listening to all that detail, but it's so fun.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

You can also make tea out of the leaves, root, and flowers (all together, or some combination of the three).

Dandelions have a lot of vitamin A and C, some B vitamins, calcium, magnesium, potassium, iron, copper, and zinc. It's good for the skin, liver, and digestion. It's a diuretic and can help with cramps.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That can be annoying, but I can usually chase it out with one of the other songs that lives in my head. Sometimes I'll put on a song in my head just because. It's not always the same as the real thing, but it's pretty good, especially the vocals.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

There's pretty much always time to explain yourself if someone doesn't understand. You could say it the first way that comes to mind, then pause and say it the second way. It doesn't have to be perfect, you just have to communicate. Sometimes you have to use your hands and feet, and that's OK too.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

That sounds great. I have 10 days of vacation a year (not required by law) and 3 sick days (required by law in my state). 60-80 hours a week, and this is a "good" job. It's been 12 years and I can't keep this up much longer. But I look at other people's jobs for a living, and I know it could be worse.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

It depends on where you're staying and how much time you have. LA is big and you'll probably spend a good amount of time in a car. If you can, get a nice rental car that's not too big. Parking is often a challenge and some streets are narrow. If renting at LAX, the wait times can be long.

Go to the beach if you can. I like Redondo Beach better than Santa Monica or Venice. Pretty and less crowded. There are wide, paved walkways and places to sit and watch the ocean.

The Getty Villa is pretty and accessible, from what I remember. The museum too.

Hollywood isn't that interesting unless you're going to an event. If you want to see it, I'd recommend driving down Hollywood Blvd. between La Brea and Vine. Or check out Cahuenga Blvd. The Hollywood Bowl is great and has accessible options, but you should book well in advance and be prepared for a long drive or shuttle ride.

If you want glitz and glamor, go to Beverly Hills and drive down Rodeo.

Drive down Mulholland for a great view of the city, or go to the Griffith Observatory. Griffith Park is also nice and has picnic areas if you don't want to walk.

Downtown LA isn't really a tourist area to me, but there are good restaurants. Some of the hotels have rooftop lounges with great views. Or go to Little Tokyo and get sushi, ramen, or mochi.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 47 points 4 months ago

Well, there's that, and also

  • Having to work really long hours to try to make ends meet
  • Being underpaid
  • No or minimal time off work (vacation and sick time both, and sometimes even medical leave doesn't protect you all that much)
  • Poor worker's rights in general
  • Crushing cost of housing
  • Crushing cost of education
  • Food and everything else you need to live is getting more expensive all the time, and the quality often goes down
  • Poor quality of medical care (on top of the exorbitant cost)
  • Not being able to spend much time with friends and family because they're all drowning in work or otherwise struggling
  • Thinking about the number of friends and family who have killed themselves, come close, or are likely to try
[–] marron12@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

It usually sounds like me. I can hear it in someone else's voice if I'm thinking about something they said or might say. I can use other voices too, or make one up, but that takes more effort.

There's also one that feels like a ghost of my real voice. That's the fastest one to think in. It's very neutral and colorless (for anyone else who thinks of voices in terms of colors).

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

Haha I get it! I'm more curious than cautious when it comes to things like this, for better or for worse. So far, I've only had good experiences. Just offered because I don't think we live all that far apart.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I'd go in with you if you wanted. I order stuff from Europe all the time and it's fine. PM if you want.

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