Not the person you replied to, but I'd be curious to know. Especially about time off work, healthcare, and cost of living.
I could write a book about those things, but I'll just say this. I get 5 sick days a year (used to be 3) and it's hard to take them when there's a lot of work, which is almost always. The rent on my last apartment almost doubled in 10 years, and the current one is on track to do the same.
I don't disagree with that, but I do think it's like physical healing. Sometimes, no matter what you do, things just aren't the same afterwards. And that's OK. You do the best with what you have, or you try, and sometimes it's easier than others.