we have to find ways to restore the other side's empathy. it's the only thing that's worked for me.
I'm trans. I spent months talking with TERFs, long ago. it was horrible. but, I managed to make a connection with one of them. I described my experiences, my life, the feelings of dysphoria, the hurt from the hate.. she listened, and came to care about me, and left their hateful cult.
I repeated this with conservatives I met. taught myself to keep my cool, to be honest, to answer mocking with sincerity. I didn't try to be "one of the good ones," I didn't throw my sisters under the bus, I made it clear that most of us were like me - just wanting to live happy, fulfilling lives.
we need to make friends with enemies. even when they betray us and hurt us. it's dangerous but I can see no better way forward.
Trump rounds trans people up into death camps
"another attempt to distract us from the Epstein files!"