Yeah, there's accurate insulting things to call her that aren't put downs about fucking someone. That said, if she was railing against adultery, the hypocrisy would make it fair game to me tbh. This isn't a "don't stoop to their level" thing, it's a "this is just entirely unrelated to everything that makes her a terrible terrible human being" thing
Honestly Lemmy has terrible gender relations, not worse than some of the subreddits though
More a long the lines that fucking someone shouldn't be the cause of disrespect unless it's hypocritical. Who gives a shit if she's fucked trump, she's an insane shit bag at best and a literal Russian agent at worst and those are REAL causes of disrespect