poppichew

This is why I don't mind having an old device, even if it's not crispy-clean or in color.

My loving sibby once told me to look around me while on a bus. Said look to the left of you, look to the right. Everyone you see is full of shit. Was a nice gesture, and I think I've kept that with me always =)

This is life.

Ooo, hahaha! I gotcha! a) Thank you! I am black and white by nature, and I think at certain points we have to fight our nature and when it comes to interacting with other humans this for sure is something we can find compromise with. Also, having an opinion that never shifts of grows is pretty freakin' rough. Oh, I just meant it was outta nowhere only on account of me just making a dumb joke =P! Thank you though =)

It's good to know this thirty year old game will be ten in a couple of months. I love it, but I absolutely have never beat it because I cannot get past the fkin dummy! I have tried three times, three separate times. I gave up and just figure I can acknowledge a game is good, while being absolutely unable to beat it.

I have absolutely no idea how you did it! My hands gave out. I mean I was literally hurting. I said no game should be physically hurting me if it's not DDR and I am not poorly stomping my way through the rhythm =P! So yeah, I stopped playing. That's when I decided to reach out, because I couldn't imagine I was the only one with this issue. More power to you if you stuck with it. Get that gold for the both of us =)

Set em, let em be known. Evaluate offenders: ignorance, disrespect, necessity? I think they can be "soft" which I guess is sort of against the idea. I think in life we need to be flexible though. I guess this is all to say - it's good to know yourself and your needs. You are absolutely welcome to leave spaces that oppress you. Not all oppression spheres can be ignored, and instead must be handled. Not all boundary breakers are oppressive, sometimes things must be met regardless of feelings. Sometimes people break things because they forget (a simple example is dead-naming which I think can happen with people accidentally - it's sort of an extreme example but it's what came to mind). Sometimes you need to meet people half-way because that's just life. You can find a way to honor other people's boundaries while honoring your own. Thanks for asking, although it felt like it was sort of out of left field =P!

It's good to have boundaries =)