Looking forward to this!
Me and the bf really enjoyed the WTF puzzling of the first season and the beautiful aesthetic, I just hope they continue the quality and don't shit the bed.....
Totally agree....
I've been using mint for the last 4 years, and while I have had to use the command line for some obscure installs, it also works as an OS without needing to use it (i jumped in at the deep end and installed it in a pc I got from my brother and used it as my everyday OS)
I don't understand why Mint isn't the first suggestion for Linux 'virgins' switching over from Windows etc, it has everything you need pre installed plus the download manager for anything else
Linux has a flavour for everyone, and after a while when you're confidence and skills grow there is the fun of using the command line and a bit of tinkering....or not, if you are happy with the 'basics'
https://mander.xyz/c/invertebrates
Sphaerotheriida, Karnataka, India, photo by vipin.baliga
I met my bf before I even suspected (and eventually diagnosed) as autistic. Now, he is likely to also be on the spectrum and a third party who has some expertise in this also agrees. I was attracted to him because he's kind and gentle and patient (also physically attractive too) and didn't fit into a 'bloke' stereotype (he's very emotional and not afraid to show this)
I was attracted to him because he was happy being himself.
I think i have an autistic radar where I'll make friendships with other neurodiverse people, because I feel more comfortable with 'my people'
Now personality and spectrum wise we are dissimilar, I'm more logical and spock-like and crap at communicating (I'd probably be happy being semi verbal for the rest of my life), he's all emotional, and talks and can handle people better.
Sensory wise I don't like hugs, noises, the sun, fairground rides, I love perfumes and smells...he loves hugs, hates smells, loves sitting out in the sun really loves fairground rides....you get the idea
Our autism presents very differently and I struggle dealing with him at times and he does with me....I didn't consciously think I want to have an autistic partner in life, we clash often, but we also come together and can stragegise our way through difficult people and situations using both our strengths
He pushes me (not in a bad way) to step outside my comfort zone so I do get to experience more things in life, and I do enjoy the fact that he can be very silly, and do odd things that make me laugh
I don't think any relationship is easy, and a double autistic or NT/autistic and NT/NT relationships all have their unique issues and difficulties. I just think that having someone who loves and cares for you, not matter how stressed/meltdowned/shutdowned you are, and is patient enough not to be angry or demanding, or controlling, and just cares for you despite your own weird brain acting the way it does....
Apologies for any word salad, and a wordy comment 😀
I like to fold paper receipts into pointy ends and use them to poke, stroke and generally pick at my fingers (usually my index), the good thing is that I can do it discretely in my pocket or under a table etc.
Foot tapping/bouncing too, and I also like to stroke my hair to remove dead strands and twirl the ends. Recently I've started to enjoy making a popping sound with my lips, but mainly when I'm alone as it's audible
I also have resurrected my childhood/teenage/early 20's blanket that I like to smell (I don't know if that's a stim exactly, but I enjoy sniffing it, and it feels comforting when I do this)
I quite often do this for art books, I find it easier on my eyes reading text on the pirate ebook version (I can make the font as big as I need), but use the hardcopy for eyeing up the pictures
Here are mine.....
Aloof: 5.67
Pragmatic Language: 4.25
Rigid: 5.17
SUPER AUTISM!!!!!
The 'aloof' description cracks me up- there's a photo of me possibly 5 or 6 years of age with me looking 'aloof' (my mothers description). I look so not interested and 'over it'...I'd actually post it here for a laugh, but I'd rather remain anonymous
HOW THE FUCK WAS IT NOT PICKED UP ON????
Oh I forget, I'm a woman and I slip under the radar 🤣
edit 'years of age'
I've just finished season 1 of rewatching DS9 (again) and Vedic Winn has just made her debut...she's such a deeply horrible piece of work, and Louise Fletcher is perfect in bringing her to life
I'm going to enjoy seeing all the nefarious politicking along with Garak and Quark, Gul Dukat, and Jeffrey Coombs staring as Inertial Dampers...
November (and December) are going to be good!
...every art-specific room I came across had a designated space or exit to airdry/safely paint spray...
....plus the ubiquitous, 10 foot tall cheese plant
'on some level most social interactions feel like performances where any misstep could mean ridicule or rejection'
yep, that one hit hard
'flying frogs' and 'random items I’d been told to bring and make a story with them' I had these on my test!
Congrats and welcome to the 'club'
It may take some time to digest it all, and I had a period of being slightly angry wondering how different my life may have been if I'd known earlier (I wasn't diagnosed until my late 40's). I think I have a better grasp on my difficulties, like sensory overload/meltdowns and understanding why I have problems socially and with communication. I'm still working things out
Good luck on your journey!
Us too, we had no idea, just that it seemed highly recommended
Each episode had us going WTF and trying to work out the 'puzzle' of it all....don't even get me started on the utterly bizarre waffle party