shiroininja

joined 1 year ago
[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

hoooooly shit I'm six years older and look better. and I've had no work done lmao

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

He has the same taste in women as a 13 year old. trashy. and sometimes 13.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

they've been off their rocker for a while

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I like the stretch skinny jeans at old navy. They’re the perfect match of worn in feeling without looking worn in.

I must say I am male, if that makes a difference

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 22 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Who's 'they'?

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

As a completely normal male: leggings around the house, and skinny jeans with a little stretch. And a hoodie. I hate loose pants and sweatpants.

And I’ve been wearing the same style low top Nike skateboarding shoes for a decade. I’ve bought them multiple times

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel no disrespect. Having become a parent, I understand why people don’t want to be one. It taught me more empathy and is why I’ve doubled down on abortion rights since becoming a parent. It’s scary, it’s super difficult, and I understand people’s decision. I can’t imagine being a single woman, alone, pregnant. And watching my ex wife struggle with birth to ultimately have an emergency C section opened my eyes to why women don’t want to go through that. They inflate a balloon in you!

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

They've gotten worse. I became a parent, and that's stressful. and Stress makes my sensory issues worse. and Kids are a sensory nightmare.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I've been playing Forza horizon 4, Euro Truck Sim 2, and ESO. And a little Switch emulation.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Memmy is my favorite. cute name. Memmy for Lemmy

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Appeasement of an aggressor never works. History has taught this over and over and over again. We still haven't learned I see. I'm mainly talking about Ukraine. Palestine is a lot more complex.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 29 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I have an unpopular opinion. Swapping candidates a couple months from election will look really disorganized and even weaker than keeping him. Especially to swing voters. And it’ll be rushed. I doubt the replacement will be well known, so you expect me to get to know, learn who they are and develop a platform in a couple months? I think they’d lose too.

It’s too late. The spineless centrists controlling the party waffled too long and I bet they cost the election again. Just like in 2016. I’m really disappointed in the Democratic Party and how it’s condensed it’s power more towards the top and quite frankly, am tired of their muted response to things like project 2025 until months before the election. It’s been around since. Before trump was elected, but without a catchy name. I passed around the leaked documents on it in 2017.

I’m just reminded of ‘Baby I’m an Anarchist’ by Against me! Lately. I’m not an Anarchist, but I feel the lyrics about the my fellow spineless liberals

 
 
 

Some background:

I am a 35 year old male with a 2 year old son. I was diagnosed this year after a lifetime of struggling and becoming a parent exacerbating my traits.

Today I had an appointment with my son’s speech therapist, because he’s still not talking more than a couple words. The appointment is unstructured play and interaction including mimicking him, waiting for his cues, etc. The problem is, I can’t pick up on communication cues or read what to do next. I can’t communicate with him like a normal parent and I feel like I’m holding him back.

The therapist had to guide me as much as she had to guide him. This was my first time meeting her, and it was all overwhelming and overstimulating. I was fighting back tears half the time and I couldn’t keep and make eye contact as well as my 2 year old. 😭

I feel like my kid is going to be stunted because of my issues. I’m newly divorced and I’m doing my best so my wife doesn’t take him from because “I care for him, but can’t care for him.”

I struggle without routines and children are chaos. I am excluded by other parents because I’m weird or different, and they keep their kids away from us when playing at the park. I want him to be able to socialize and have friends and his autistic monster father gets in the way.

Everything is always so overwhelming and I struggle to not have panic attacks. How am I supposed to help when he gets to school? I have trouble with numbers and can’t do math😭😭

I just feel like giving up. I don’t know what to do

 

I don’t know if I’m more scared of having autism or not having if.

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