wellthatwasashock

joined 11 months ago
[–] wellthatwasashock@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

Oooooph. I feel this. Almost the exact same thing going on here. Stay safe man.

[–] wellthatwasashock@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

I appreciate it, and the whole lawyer thing is something I’ve very much been learning. They like the concept of shooting for the moon. It’s too bad, would love to find some legal teams that didn’t think like that, but it is their job.

And to your numbered points: yuuuup. I’m absolutely nailing down our contracts and procedures, and being much more skeptical about who we work with.

And genuinely: thanks for taking the time, and the kind words at the end there. I appreciate it.

[–] wellthatwasashock@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hey! I so appreciate you taking the time to message me. Mine is a fraction of the time and size, so I can barely imagine how you’re feeling.

That sounds very wise, and makes a lot of sense. I think part of it is getting over the sense of loss, and realizing that if you’ve built something once — you can build something else valuable again. But man is it a kick in the stomach.

I hope your situation turns out well. But I’m very glad to hear that you’re finding ways to move through it. I’ll absolutely take that input. Thanks again!

[–] wellthatwasashock@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

Thanks. This is good advice, and I appreciate you taking the time.

Yeah. Realizing it’s just part of the journey has been helpful. Makes the whole thing feel less devastating, and more like just another business challenge to figure out.

But man if it isn’t hard on the old ego.

Again. Thanks.

 

Not asking for legal advice here, more how to handle things emotionally.

Long story short, we started a joint venture with another company last year and they stiffed us on payment and walked off with the IP we built. I won't go into details, but they've got deeper pockets than us, and are trying to intimidate us into walking away.

I've got lawyers working on it, and we're taking all the steps to handle it well. But fuckingdamn if it's not an emotional load. Sleepless nights, angry days, the works.

While I'm hopeful we'll have a good outcome (we were solid about documenting everything), it looks like it'll be a long road.

I'm using it as a solid learning curve. But: How have you guys handled similar situations emotionally? Especially when it looks like it'll take another 1 - 2 years to sort out. Feels like it's taken the wind out of my sails.

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