Why are you asking strangers on the internet if you should be offended? You either are or you aren’t, and only you can answer that. Also, as others have said TALK TO EACH OTHER! Express how it makes you feel, ask why he feels it’s necessary.
Keeping your true thoughts and feelings from each other isn’t really the basis for a partnership of strength and makes it very hard to work through your problems if nobody is actually being honest with the other person or themselves.
Why are you asking strangers on the internet if you should be offended? You either are or you aren’t, and only you can answer that. Also, as others have said TALK TO EACH OTHER! Express how it makes you feel, ask why he feels it’s necessary.
Keeping your true thoughts and feelings from each other isn’t really the basis for a partnership of strength and makes it very hard to work through your problems if nobody is actually being honest with the other person or themselves.