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What's Your Least Favourite Noises? (aussie.zone)
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Inspired by a recent thread. This question might be triggering, so be careful. For me, even imagining these sounds is mildly upsetting.

Basically, which noises immediately ruin your day? For me it's mostly sudden loud sounds, in order of most awful descending:

Tap for sounds

  • Unmuffled compression brakes (when trucks or buses stop and go BANG)
  • Smoke detector / emergency alarms
  • Emergency services sirens
  • Balloons popping
  • Car horns / honking
  • Angle grinders
  • People practically smashing plates while violently washing dishes
  • Vacuum cleaners or other power tools
  • Yelling / screaming
  • Alarm clocks

Surprisingly I don't seem to hate "commonly hated" sounds like: nails on chalkboard, tinnitus, knife on plate, styrofoam rubbing, microphone feedback, babies crying, chewing, snoring, flies, repetitive tapping, dog barking.

Once, I went to a birthday party where the parents let their kid jump on the balloons and pop them one by one on purpose. I had to leave immediately.

If I wear earmuffs, it basically solves the issue. So I'm careful and on the lookout for situations that could make these sounds. I cover my ears with my hands if I don't have them on me.

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[–] Blackfeathr@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I have misophonia very bad and my triggers are many things like: gum popping, gum smacking, foot tapping, loud atonal whistling, and pretty much any noise emitted by humans that is completely unnecessary and just exists to make noise.

Also the first alarm default (I think it's called Morning or Sunshine or something) on Android phones because of a coworker I used to have that would have that alarm set to check her blood sugar and when it would go off, she would just ignore it and for 20 minutes or more it would just keep going LOUDLY and NONSTOP.

My coworker now has this same alarm that goes off every time breaks start and he does not know (or doesn't care) to completely shut it off, he just snoozes it so it keeps going off every ten minutes.

Mildly upsetting or startling sounds are slamming doors and yelling, due to PTSD.