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Kinda sorta copy/pasted question from Reddit. But wanted to see what your answers are like on here!

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[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 38 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I trust my spidey sense. When the hairs on the back of my neck go up and i get that feeling in my chest, i listen to it.

Its gotten me out of an armed store robbery, 2 ither street level robberies, 2 houses that just didnt feel right, multiple encounters with dangerous animals ( gators and 1 panther).

My wife just thinks im paranoid.

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

How many false positives for your spidey sense?

[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

Dont know..... i dont hang around long enough to find out.

[–] crimson_iris@piefed.social 10 points 12 hours ago

We get that feeling for a very good reason. It's our intuition telling us something our instincts already know. Many people don't get it and are conditioned into telling themselves "it's probably nothing" because they don't want to look silly in public. It can lead to paranoia, if you've been in enough hairy situations, but most of the time you'll want to listen to that intuition and do something about it as soon as you get that feeling.