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What service one should NOT self host (alien.top)
submitted 11 months ago by SuperWill5633@alien.top to c/main@selfhosted.forum
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Like the title says, I'm new to self hosting world. 😀 while I was researching, I found out that many people dissuaded me to self host email server. Just too complicated and hard to manage. What other services that you think we should just go use the currently available providers in the market and why? 🙂thank you

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[–] bulletproofkoala@alien.top 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Okay I understand that email hosting is bad for SENDING email , but what about only RECEIVING email , isn’t it a good idea to keep my stuff private ? I rarely send personal emails, and like to avoid my data being used for marketing purposes Is that bad to have smtp imap open on dynamic ip address ? Just asking your opinion

[–] 0rsted@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Antispam is hell, just saying

[–] nekapsule@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

Antispam is easy with a mix of greylisting and spamassassin

[–] shrugal@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm doing exactly that, and it works like a charm. Get a DynDNS, backup mx and SMTP relay and you're good, or get a domain provider like strato.de that already includes all three with the domain.

Spam is also manageable. I get maybe 1-2 per day that make it past the filter, and I do have to add some custom keyword filters from time to time, but that's about it. Fetching updated filter lists and self-learning from past errors keeps the filter up to date and is completely automated.

[–] nekapsule@alien.top 1 points 11 months ago

Self hosted doesn’t mean hosted on your home connection. Even with a static IP I would recommend against hosting your mail server at home because any outage means no mail (been there, done that). I have hosted my own imap/smtp server for decades and couldn’t be happier with it, but yes, the smtp part is tricky to evade blocks, especially from MSFT who would just block entire networks without a real reason (Linode for example)