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Social media post on Mastodon by Dan Moren.

It reads, “ My son just got me out of talking to a door-to-door cable salesman so I guess parenthood was all worth it.”

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[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 49 points 1 month ago (12 children)

It's easy.

  1. Deny
  2. Take control
  3. Show empathy
  4. Start their departure.
  5. Make them glad they're leaving

Cut them off, "Oh, sorry. I'm not interested in that. I need to quickly get back to what I was doing. But you have a good day and try stay cool/warm/dry/etc. out there." Start stepping back, "And be careful of the dog four doors down, it's a fucking cunt."

As you close the door, say "You too, bud." regardless of what they say, even if they say nothing.

They will never return or pursue, and you won't feel rude.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (8 children)

It's ok to be rude. They were rude for showing up at your door in the first place.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 41 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Eh, I save rude for the second "Leave." It's a human being on the other side of the door. Half the time it's some kid who just needed a job summer before college. I say hey, I don't want solar panels right now, have a nice day.

Now, when you tell me to wait, as you stand on my porch, then I'm going to tell you to get off my porch. I still say please though, because my kids might be listening, and I strive to use good manners in all my interactions, in the hopes they will too. You can be firm and polite.

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