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[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world -3 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

They could have a deteriorating condition :/

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Or they are a 35 year old male suffering from depression who blames everything and everyone else in the world for their suffering other than take an ounce of blame for their situation.

I'm not some tough guy who typically preaches "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" motivation. This guy needs a reality check.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This may seems harsh, but I reccommend people take a look at platypus's profile (the person ninemiletower is calling out).

They are 35 years old, have posted a lot of this sort of stuff, and have not actually mentioned any physical issue or disabilities over the course of their very public pity party.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 2 months ago

Pity party? I'm commenting how fucked is my life, because that's the reality I'm living, I never asked to feel bad for me.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 2 months ago

No I don't I already live that reality.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If they do, they have never mentioned it over a fairly long course of posting "everything sucks" and not accepting any advice. Check their posting history.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What advice? "Change your life, move outside, study" that's middle class shit, I'm not allowed plus my city doesn't give you any type of help. I literally looked the online site for the town, it hasn't being updated in a year.

[–] Sc00ter@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

im not allowed

Well with an attitude like that...

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world 1 points 2 months ago

Attitude? Dude I'm one step to suicidal. My attitude is the last is my problems

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Nobody I guess. The world keeps fucking me even when I try.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Everyone on this planet suffers from something. You are not alone in it. The world in neutral and is not out to fuck you.

When you realize you aren't a victim of fate, you empower yourself to achieve great things. You aren't special, and the world is not out to fuck you over. Sorry. It's hard to hear, but it's a good thing. You can achieve anything anyone else can.

It's no one's fault, but yours. However, that's good because you control whether or not that changes.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Absolute Bs, I want to work, do some stuff yet nobody gives me the chance. Is like I'm invisible and that's out of my hands

"Then become someone else, grew and be better" AKA invest money and time I don't have... I'm fucked either way

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Ok, so stay in your situation, stew in your negativity, and blame the world.

You have options. They may take time, but you are choosing to suffer. We all choose to suffer or not. No one dictated what you can do but you.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Negativity? Is a reality I don't think you understand. I don't have access to any help. And I'm not alone. Why do you think many people low class and immigrants like me become criminals? Do you think most of them love it? No, but even criminals need to pay the bills or they will get evicted.

You sound privileged, I don't expect you to understand. But realize that many people aren't like you, I can't even get a fast food job. That's how impossible my life is.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Without detail, I've been to hell and back brother. No one's going to help you but you. I hope you find whatever peace it is that you are looking for.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 2 months ago

Yeah keep ignoring the facts I mentioned.