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Is this romantic or a red flag? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world to c/funny@sh.itjust.works

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[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Personally, I’d delete it in case relationship took a turn for the worse. I wouldn’t want to be tempted to ruin someone’s life out of jealousy or a broken heart.

I see both sides. As off-putting as it is, the intent of showing complete trust and vulnerability should not be overlooked. Maybe just ask them to dial it back to a less offensive method of demonstration.

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

Maybe I've just watched too many rom-coms, but is it so unrealistic that she may have been hoping he would reciprocate her twisted romantic gesture by deleting the video in front of her?