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[–] Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

It’s scary but it also made me feel more free to cross other societal boundaries.

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 5 points 8 hours ago

I went to a nightclub last month that was a sex/kink-positive themed night, and the organisation was super LGBTQ. I made so many friends because it was the perfect environment to meet people who, as you describe, are at the point where they cross many social boundaries. It certainly is scary, but it gets easier when you meet delightfully weird people who are basically just goals.

[–] knightly@pawb.social 15 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I've made it to a state where most non-queer folks still think I'm a guy and queer folks feel compelled to ask my pronouns. Good enough for this enby~<3