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Reddit is removing the Direct Message feature, and all active conversations will be archived so you won't be able to continue ongoing conversations. Reddit also deleted all bad reviews for their app awhile ago. Its rating went from 3.4 to 4.5 stars overnight.

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[–] brax@sh.itjust.works 85 points 6 days ago (6 children)

Lmao chat is one of the dumbest features they ever rolled out.

I love how their attitude is always "we made this useless feature, and instead of ditching it were going to get rid of what people preferred and force the hated alternative!"

Once again proving that the Reddit admins absolutely hate the fact that people use Reddit. They should just shit the site down already.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

i did originally used with other person on reddit, with a job specific sub. that was about it, and every other time was a spammer trying to contact people.

[–] makyo@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I hated both features honestly. I'm there to converse in public, anything you say you can add in a public reply to one of my comments. If it was ever used for honest chat or messaging, I never saw it.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

i Used PM alot before Trumps first term, and somewhat during him to. i stopped once i started getting into arguments with people about a certain they were doing wrong(like how a dude was trying to apply to same company job at different times or different position, i was saying there is no way they would hire you once you get rejected, he was deadset on reapplying no reason other than how convenient it is for him) and i was getting warnings. i do it doesnt clutter up the subs, that would flag my account as a spammer originally.

[–] SpoopyKing@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 6 days ago

It was useful for asking questions that neither you nor the other person would want to put in a public post. For example, someone posted a picture in the bad real estate sub that looked very familiar, and I sent a DM asking "is this X location?". I might not want people to know I'm familiar with X location, they might not want people to know they're familiar with X location, but maybe we're both ok with each other knowing.

But I'm pretty sure its main use was sending hate to people without getting banned.

[–] Sc00ter@lemm.ee 7 points 6 days ago

I would use it for some video game LFGs. I wouldnt want to post my game name in a public forum and have my game account be flooded.

[–] brax@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

But then how can we ask for nudes? /S

I don't mind DMs for one-off things. Like if I see something sketchy and want to tip off a user without alerting the sketchy one.

Also, everybody already owns a named subreddit that they mod, don't they? So can't you just send modmail there and still sidebar the chat in lieu of modmail DMs?

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

there were subs getting in trouble for asking nudes, mainly medical, where perverts were asking CP-type pictures of thier privates of minors, i think the subs became aware and started making it known you cant post as a minor anymore, or have to label the post without pics.

[–] brax@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

How does disabling DMs stop this?

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I used to use it when I wanted to impart a little secret to another Redditor, without alerting the entire world.

For instance, I found a cool, lesser-used auction site that often had good deals on guitars. If I ran across someone whose guitar had been lost somehow, or who couldnt afford a new guitar, I would DM the auction site, and ask them to keep it quiet. I didn't want to announce it publicly, and alert the entire world to it, and ruin it.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

i do that too, trying to give them advice , that people wouldnt try to astroturf your comment.

DMs had their uses, for example RemindMeBot cannot work over chat because there is no API.

[–] taco@piefed.social 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

were going to get rid of what people preferred and force the hated alternative!

It's not always the hated alternative that wins, hence why we're here right now.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Anything that benefits them, fuck the users.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's the Late-Stage Capitalist way.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

enshittification actually.

[–] hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

it may surprise you how many people use reddit for personals and porn

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

everyone on tumbler went to TWITTER and reddit for porn, and then OF. imagine the amount of users will disappeared if they banned porn. there were other forums, pics like subs that had regular porn you see on reddit but they were so unregulated they have discussion and imagery about CSAM and beastility.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

All in marketing. Can sell ketchup popsicles to women in white gloves with enough money thrown at it.