this post was submitted on 09 May 2025
122 points (97.7% liked)

Ask Lemmy

31536 readers
2313 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !askusa@discuss.online


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Let's have a lunch and learn!

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 29 points 23 hours ago (4 children)
  1. Alignment
  2. Scalable
  3. Circle back

If you use these regularly I KNOW the meeting you just booked me into should have been an email.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 3 points 14 hours ago

FUCK touching base that one's the worst.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 13 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Huh why scalable? I feel like that applies to a lot of things, not just the corporate world.

[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 7 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I can't remember last time I heard someone use it in a normal conversation, but in the corporate world I find it gets incredibly overused.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 2 points 13 hours ago

It's fine is used properly, but management tends to use it to mean "magically gooder."

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 10 points 22 hours ago

I guess it doesn’t bug me so much because it’s not so cringe and actually clearly communicates the point. We do in-house video editing at the company I work at, and when we talk about scaling we’re talking about making sure our processes hold when we add more and more people and increase our volume. It’s a growing company so I have to constantly talk about anticipating and buying things to make sure we don’t run into a wall with our growth.

I guess this is less pushing back and more asking what word you would rather see?

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 6 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I always hated “circle back” but I did get into using it ironically for a while.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I wouldn't actually mind "circle back" if it wasn't just used as cover to kick the can down the road.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 1 points 13 hours ago

For me the guy who always said it was a former boss and he was good at actually circling back, but sometimes it felt more like “fuck that for now.”

[–] bdot@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

“let’s just put a pin in that, and circle back to it later”

[–] Wazowski@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Every meeting should be a fucking email.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 1 points 13 hours ago

I always want to do things by email instead of a meeting, but have to admit the meeting is often necessary. Of course it wouldn't be if people could actually read and comprehend a detailed email and if they could also actually communicate information into writing without expecting you to be their minds enough to make sense of the incomplete vague phases they hurriedly type.

[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 9 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I spend more time in meetings talking about the work I'm going to do, than doing the actual fucking work.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I’m not in many meetings but when I am, I oversell and overpromise then immediately forget everything we discussed as soon as it ends.

Just send a fucking email.

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 6 points 23 hours ago

Bro I have my first "big company" job after working smaller places for over a decade. This feels so real. I'm dying.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Unless there is a need for faster communication or because it covers a topic that people have strong emotions about and need to see how others respond so they don't assume the other person's feelings about something. There are some cases where humans, being social animals, do need some interaction beyond words to accomplish coordinated tasks.

The vast majority of meetings should be emails though. Just wish people actually read emails...