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If your post would end up like that in a day, please just refrain from posting it, in any community, or use a throwaway. It is very destructive, especially since all and every comment also becomes unreachable with it.

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With all due respect,
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I'm fed up with this shit, and I know it well that it's not just me.

Do not bomb your communities, please.

I promise, I'll end up setting up a public instance that does not obey any deletions because of these madlads. Seriously, where is pushshift for lemmy?

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[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The solution to this is changing the software to give the communities more control over the content, being able to restore the comment, maybe without the name so the persons username keeps unaffected while still keeping the content intact.

This needs to go into the lemmy software issue tracker to be considered. That is the way to change things.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The problem is that it's hard to negotiate that against the reason a lot of people left Reddit: losing control over their own content. People want to have the ability to delete their stuff.

The only thing that I think should be different is that deleting a post or comment shouldn't delete everything under it. Comments from other users should remain accessible when the parent is deleted. I've had a lot of good discussions on Lemmy that I can't access anymore because someone chose to delete their content above it, which also deleted mine. It's still losing control over my own content, but in the opposite way from Reddit.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 4 points 8 hours ago

yes, fully agree. please add this to the issue tracker! :) thank you