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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world -5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I assume the vast majority of women would think it's a gigantic, flashing "red flag" (if you claim to be straight, at least), but in Western online spaces you'll probably find a good amount of women that will find it hot or "progressive".

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Why would it be? It has nothing to do with my sexual orientation.

[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Despite the down votes, this is the real answer to your question. No the vast majority will not find it appealing. You would be highly selectively filtering your audience. The answer to why, is culture.

[–] luxyr42@lemmy.dormedas.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"The vast majority" really depends on the social space/context you are in. Middle of Kansas or Alabama? Yeah. Portland or Seattle or another place like that? Might be a majority or might not be, depends on the part of town probably.

[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, the more specific you filter the community towards the niche culture, the higher the probability. But to get there you'd probably have to filter down to specific sub-communities in specific parts of specific towns. I feel it's intellectually safe to call the rest a vast majority overall.

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 weeks ago

So many answers getting upvoted bc they’re saying what OP wants to hear. Lemmy does not live in reality.

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

The "real" answer is not pulling him down like that.

There's no unified majority. There are many millions of people.

[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You got crushed by the hive mind, but this is the real answer

It's a mixture of (probably well-meaning) performative morality ("don't say that, everyone loves everyone and what they do. Please, my heart hurts!") and wishful thinking/utter confusion. 🀷πŸ˜