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Did I do a good deed or bad deed? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 day ago by allo@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I was just grocery shopping and mysteriously had an extra 90$ on my foodcard. So I exclaimed to the cashier, "wow i love surprise extra money". The person in line behind me said, "i wish i got surprise money". So I took 5$ and tossed it in her bag, she said "No Wait Dont!" but I had already spun around and was on my way out of the store.

So what was that? Good or bad?

A good deed because it was kindness and generousity? Did her stating she didnt want it make it immoral and thus i should have stayed so she could give it back? Did it all happen as it was supposed to so that she would display herself as nonneedy, I could do the kindness, and, by leaving before anything could change, the state of reality was frozen as is for us beings within?

Please tell me whether I'm good or evil; thank you! :)

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[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Wow, you need to look inward. You've either been hurt or you dislike people trying to be decent.