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Showerthoughts
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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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- All posts must be showerthoughts
- The entire showerthought must be in the title
- No politics
- If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
- A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
- Posts must be original/unique
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"Don't make someone a priority in your life if you're not even an option in theirs." Some pretty good advice I heard from my wife a long time ago.
We're both kinda socially awkward, but we're just not gonna keep reaching out to someone who never reaches out to us. That's not a friend, that's a matter of convenience, and that's fine from time to time. I have a good friend I almost never speak to, but when I have something to say, he generally picks up and we talk, then go another couple years without speaking. I wouldn't call him a friend because we can go so long, but I'm not sure what else to call him. A brother? I mean, I don't really keep up with my family, either. (And he came to my wedding from pretty far away, so that matters.)