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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We're finally starting to get there, but American food culture really needs to embrace communal eating more. Think tapas, hot pots, even simply ordering a few dishes to share with the whole table.

It's more of a social and interactive activity, you get to try more things--it's just a better experience. And you don't get ostracized if you have some specific reason that you need your own separate food (medical, personal, whatever).

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

confused about that last sentence. in my experience, adding more people to the mix drastically increases the chances of ostracization

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago

Well, then you know who not to have dinner with anymore.